stupid question time.

ok so the calender ive been using says ive been fertile since friday well DH & i BD fri & sat and today i just honestly feel like shit i just wanna get a hot bath and crawl in my bed and do nothing like ive been doing all day. the calender says im feritile til the 8th. will not BD with my DH hurt my chances this month?

sperm can live up to 7 days. you would still have a chance of being pregnant if you stopped BDing, but they would be much higher if you kept going until the 7th.

well... the more you do it the better chance you have...

hmm technicaly you don't have too every day cause sperm can live up ther for a while... but its up to you you don't have to put all your energy into it if you know what I mean. you might be feeling ickky cause an eggo might be trying to stick.

oh no i dont mean to stop BD at all this week just tonight.

OH! Your fine then girly! Get some rest! The doctor told me that every other day is just fine!

Quoting Renay Bockes:“ hmm technicaly you don't have too every day cause sperm can live up ther for a while... but its up to ... [snip!] ... have to put all your energy into it if you know what I mean. you might be feeling ickky cause an eggo might be trying to stick.”

it could be that because i believe i ovulated a few days early this month. but the weather is changing here. it went from like a hot humide 8o degree day to the 60s like within a week. dont get me wrong i love the fall here. but man does it kick me in the ass when seasons change.

Quoting Amber*Strass:“ sperm can live up to 7 days. you would still have a chance of being pregnant if you stopped BDing, but they would be much higher if you kept going until the 7th.”

Thats a maximum day-most sperm are viable for like three days.

Quoting Amber*Strass:“ OH! Your fine then girly! Get some rest! The doctor told me that every other day is just fine!”

yea believe me. i havent left my bed normally on sundays we watch the race with my family * my grandpa is a die hard race fan * but today i just grabbed my laptop and been on my couch all day & shipped him up the road. he needed a day out of the house. lol.

You could skip, but I hate doing that because I know I'll regret it if I get a BFN. Sometimes if I'm tired I just lay back and let DH do all the work. Or I tell him to do it early in the morning and I barely even wake up, lol.

Quoting Star1984:“ You could skip, but I hate doing that because I know I'll regret it if I get a BFN. Sometimes if I'm ... [snip!] ... tired I just lay back and let DH do all the work. Or I tell him to do it early in the morning and I barely even wake up, lol.”

well my DH is up at like 5 on weekdays & aint no way hes dragging me out bed til at least 8 lol. ive been really tired lately. & now ive got this ickey cold but i think i ovulated a few days early this month.

Quoting Mrs. Krol.:“ well my DH is up at like 5 on weekdays & aint no way hes dragging me out bed til at least 8 lol. ... [snip!] ... 8 lol. ive been really tired lately. & now ive got this ickey cold but i think i ovulated a few days early this month.”

By the way, I think we are both on the same O schedule. Whens your testing date?

Quoting Amber*Strass:“ By the way, I think we are both on the same O schedule. Whens your testing date?”

this says i can test the 17th but im gonna wait til the 20th my AF is due the 21st
http://www.whenmybaby.com/conception-calendar.php

Quoting Mrs. Krol.:“ this says i can test the 17th but im gonna wait til the 20th my AF is due the 21st http://www.whenmybaby.com/conception-calendar.php”

AF is due on the 21st for me too! Hopefully we will both get BFP's so we can be due date buddies!!!

Quoting Amber*Strass:“ AF is due on the 21st for me too! Hopefully we will both get BFP's so we can be due date buddies!!!”

that would deft be nice. somone who knows what im going through. lol besides my DH he doesnt have a clue. lol.