Should i go?

ok ladies. heres my problem tonight. my husband is having a going away party because he leaves for bootcamps in 2 weeks. i dont really feel like going because i hate being around him when he drinks. i've also been feeling alil down because our anniversary was 2 days agon our plans got all fuked up n things didnt turn out how we planned them..

im stuck between going tonight or not..what do you ladies think i should do?
i know everyone is going to wonder where i am and they are going to think something is going wrong w. us if im not there.

i dont even have anything to wear! argh..

i would go just to be there with my husband.. cuz it is HIS going away party..but thats just me

Go... Its his going away party, I'm sure he'll want you there to enjoy it w/ him. As for him drinking, He's going to bootcamp, Let him enjoy himself.

Well the night is about him, not you... so go and show your love and support. Life is full of ups and downs, and so is marriage, and you have to make sacrifices for eachother at times, even if you dont feel like it at the moment. So I say put on a happy face, go and make the most of it! And if he wants to return the favor and be considerate, you might ask him if he will stay light on the drinking so you can actually enjoy the night too!

thanks girls..

im not at all trying to get attention tonight from everyone..i know its his night and i want him to enjoy it..and thats even why i was considering not going..because i dont want to put myself in a situation where im going to be upset..because i dont know how to hide it and it will show in my face even if i try to put on a happy face..

there are going to be people there that i dont really enjoy being around..but i respect his friends and family n i dont stop him from hanging out w. any of them..

i still have about an hour to decide..i want to be there to support him..but a part of me just wants to stay home w. our son today and relax..im so tierd..lol

after i had my son i dont ever feel like going out to the club scene anymore..i did it once for my bday and didnt enjoy it anymore..