My 21st birthday .. help!

My 21st is less than 2 months away, I am trying to figure out what the best plan is.

I live in Salem, Oregon.. but have NO friends here 'cept my "work" friends.. cause I don't do anything other then work!! All my best friends and family are back home in Arizona and there is nothing more that I'd love then celebrating w/ them..

Annikas birthday is also 10 days after mine, and my fathers is 4 days after mine..

I for the life of me can't decide if I should just bite the dust and spend the money on tickets to go home for 4-5 days (I have the time off) or just stay home and save and do something AMAZING for myself... (idk what I'd do w/ 700 bucks.. but ya)

I'm torn!

Go home, that's what I would do.  Happy Birthday!

Quoting Akmomma:“ Go home, that's what I would do. Happy Birthday!”

I really want to, I just hate flying haha. specially SO close to the holidays!

I would totally go home, in a heart beat.

Quoting shan-wow!:“ My 21st is less than 2 months away, I am trying to figure out what the best plan is. I live in Salem, ... [snip!] ... time off) or just stay home and save and do something AMAZING for myself... (idk what I'd do w/ 700 bucks.. but ya) I'm torn!”

I'd go home if I were you.

Go home If you can. Thats what I did for my 21st I went to Bend, Oregon   I miss Oregon  

you should just get the hell outta Dodge!! lol  And don't tell your father so u can surprise him for your B-day and be his B-day gift as well. Are you gonna take your little one with u too?

Quoting Falysha:“ you should just get the hell outta Dodge!! lol  And don't tell your father so u can surprise him for your B-day and be his B-day gift as well. Are you gonna take your little one with u too?”

Yes I am!!

but the surpise thing would be HELLA a good idea!

Go home. You only have one 21st Birthday. I think you'd have more fun.