what would you do? *very long*

Heres the thing, ive been w/ my son's father 4 yr. n a 1/2.For the past yr. ive been havin to deal his other bab mama bout 2 mths n2 the relationship we find shes pregnant n its spsdly his. I let it go b/c she concieved #d we got together she had it n gave it up 4 adoption. a few months after that when i was 6 months pregnant he left w/o telling w/ her to a town a couple of hrs away to spsdly watch thier kids 4 a wk. while she worked. when he came back come to find out she paid him to do so. they spsdly didnt sleep together (yea right!)i let it go for the sake of my kids ive been tryin to make it work. she keeps tryin to bait him by giving him whateva he wants n thats who he goes to when he needs nething. i dont thats necessary when he is spsdly w/ me but he knows im not gonna spoil him l/k that.also they r supposed to go back home w/ her to handle some bussiness for a few hrs. i told him he does it not to come back to me b/c i think its more to the story. here lies the ? what u do n this situation?

sorry so long.

sorry 4 the grammar and abbreviations i'm very pissed n confused right now

I don't understand...What does spsdly mean??

I'm sorry but I didnt get most of that... it was very confusing and made my head hurt to read.

Quoting Annika's Mommy:“ I don't understand...What does spsdly mean??”

I'm guessing it means supposedly ...

An abbreviation?? *OH*!! :cue lightbulb:

supposedly...right??

Quoting Annika's Mommy:“ An abbreviation?? *OH*!! :cue lightbulb: supposedly...right??”

lol @ the lightbulb 

I wouldn't allow it. I understand having a place in his other kids life but going off without telling you and staying with her for a week is NOT okay.

well spelling correctly so your post is readable isa start...

Quoting L & E + "Twitch":“ well spelling correctly so your post is readable isa start...”

Actually that doesn't matter. I'm sure you've seen the forward where the words don't have to be spelled correctly for you to read and understand it. Really she just used a bunch of abbreviations to vent out some anger.

well thats why i apologized after i reread my post. i can see where it could seem confusing, but im using a mobile phone to type my posts n im tryin to make it as short as possible....also if u have a newborn and a hyper child on top of everything else u could understand why my brain aint working correctly.

thanks to those who didnt give me crap 

No offense to the OP but since everyone is complaining, here's the translation:

"Here's the thing:
I've been with my son's father for 1 year and a half [or 4 years n a half, I dont know what she meant here].

For the past year, i've had to deal with his other baby mama. About two months into our relationship, we found out she was pregnant - supposedly with his child. I let it go because she conceived before we got together. She gave the child up for adoption.

A few months after that, when I was six months pregnant, he left without telling me. He went to her town, a couple of hours away, to supposedelywatch their kids for one week while she worked. After he came back, come to find out she had paid him to do so. They supposedly didn't sleep together (yeah right!). I let it go for the sake of my children and i've been trying to make our relationship work.

She keeps trying to bait him by giving him whatever he wants - so he goes to her whenever he needs anything. I don't think that's necessary when he supposed to be with me but he knows i'm not going to spoil him like she does.

Also, he is supposed to go back home with her to handle some business for a few hours. I told him if he goes - do not come back to me because I think there is more to the story.

Here lies the question: what would you do in this situation?"

Quoting Kayla [♥ Mia]:“ No offense to the OP but since everyone is complaining, here's the translation: "Here's the thing: ... [snip!] ... come back to me because I think there is more to the story. Here lies the question: what would you do in this situation?"”

none taken  thanks im glad someone understands

Quoting kg198202:“ well thats why i apologized after i reread my post. i can see where it could seem confusing, but im using ... [snip!] ... on top of everything else u could understand why my brain aint working correctly. thanks to those who didnt give me crap ”

I wasnt trying to give you crap, I just said that I honestly couldnt read it. But using a mobel phone I understand now why it wasnt very good grammer.

Quoting Katy Jo:“ I wasnt trying to give you crap, I just said that I honestly couldnt read it. But using a mobel phone I understand now why it wasnt very good grammer.”

thats fine my computers messed up n this the only online access i have n it sucks!