I hate him so much

So the boy who got me pregnant is a complete asshole, when I first told him about me being pregnant

He told me to get an abortion then said i was a fraction of a person for not getting it done, he told me to go jump off a bridge, and that I better hurry up and start having sex with someone else so that I can tell them that they are the father, that I would fail at raising this child, and when the child asks where their father is tell the kid that her mother was 'funfuckin" and got pregnant.
He said that Karma would come back around to me for having this baby, I only wanted this child to be with him. That my child would be a "trick baby" because I tricked him WHICH I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW THAT IS POSSIBLE.... etc.etc.

He apologized and then did the same thing except then he accused me of just wanting him and its not true, I dont want him, I told him, and then he said "If you dont want me then why are you gonna have a kid" "Why do you want a kid with someone you dont wanna be with"

Then he apologized....and I swear its just been going off and on...

Now, he jsut snapped off on me agaian, I cant take it anymore..
I told him I needed to talk he said "you have 15 min"....are you serious???...as many times as I have listened talk about how he feels about this pregnancy, and as much bullshit as he has said to me....
I have tried so hard to keep things civil...I swear I have tried so fuckin hard...I just dont feel like I can do it anymore

i'm sorry you're having to deal w/this! He sounds like a loser...you dont need him..and neither does your child!

soooo.. ignore him, and then when the baby comes, suck him dry with child support.  

leave him.
That guy is a total jerk and its better to not have a father at all then to have one thats a no good ass.

well if he wants nothing to do iwth the child cut off contact with him and have him sign something that says he wants nothing to do with the child.
he sounds very verbally abusive. you wouldnt want a kid growing up with that for a father would you?

im sorry your dealing with someone like this, just cut your losses now while you can, tell him if he doesnt want to be around then fine, and drop him like a fly. dont' deal with it anymore, just tell him look, im not talking to you anymroe, and don't, tell him that when the baby comes get some legal help to arrange for child support and that kind of thing, if not for him since he doenst seem to care but for his family, and even if he doesnt want anything to do with the baby he still needs to help financially take care of the baby. i hope things get better for you.

Quoting Mirkat:“ So the boy who got me pregnant is a complete asshole, when I first told him about me being pregnant ... [snip!] ... I have tried so hard to keep things civil...I swear I have tried so fuckin hard...I just dont feel like I can do it anymore”

My sons biological father was the same way. He told me he wanted a baby and to marry me etc....and then when I found out I was pregnant he was happy for abouta day and then started on the whole abortion thing. I then broke up with him but tried to keep things civil with him for my son....which I thought was the best thing for my son because I never wanted him to blame me for not knowing who his father was....well I was wrong...it is so much drama and my son is 2 1/2 yrs old and his dad still picks fights with me about things that happend over 3 years ago. He is not reliable and I can't even trust him with my son. I met and married a great man that has been in my sons life since he was 6 mo old. He is in the process of trying to adopt my son but my sons biological father who has wanted nothing to do with my son is now showing all this interest and fighting it....ughhh so much drama....in the end you have to do what is right for your child. If you believe he will be a good positve role model then I would say try to keep things civil but if not your child is WAY better off not knowing him. We are actually closing the adoption to get the loser out of my sons life!

I dont ask him for anything, I never have, I dont get it, I havent done anything to him, I swear I havent...I just dont want to be a horrible person and be one of those people that get in the way of their child having a dad....I dont know what to do...I dont want her around that

Quoting Kai's Mommy  :“ My sons biological father was the same way. He told me he wanted a baby and to marry me etc....and then ... [snip!] ... if not your child is WAY better off not knowing him. We are actually closing the adoption to get the loser out of my sons life!”

im happy for you, I hope I meet someone like that....congrats ...and yead i feel the same way about not wanting to be blamed for her dad to not be around

Quoting Maggiekins:“ soooo.. ignore him, and then when the baby comes, suck him dry with child support.  ”

agree agree, if he is gonna be an ass about it be a Btch right back. You are doing the right thing to have this baby...im kinda in the same boat... ignore him, he is an idiot and you dont need him

All men think like that they are scared of what could happen! then on top of the fact that they are stupid and not very mature at all. if all else fails with this clown guess what fuck him! GOD GAVE U A BABY AND HE KNOW U CAN HANDLE IT NOW IF THIS SO CALLED MAN WANTS TO MISS OU TON THIS MIRACLE THEN LET HIM YOU BE SELFISH AND HOG IT ALL TO YOUR SELF EMBRACE THAT BABY. DO THE RIGHT THING AND U HAVE WHAT HE DOES NOT A EARLY BOND WITH YOUR CHILD  HE IS JEALOUS

Quoting Mirkat:“ im happy for you, I hope I meet someone like that....congrats ...and yead i feel the same way about not wanting to be blamed for her dad to not be around”

I wouldn't worry about it to much. I figure when my son is old enough I will explain everything to him and then it will be up to him whether he wants a relationship with him but until then I will not allow it as I do not even trust him with my son. Good luck....definitely not a fun situation!