Advice about my marriage

me and my husband moved to orlando to fix my marriage to get away from everyone and we fixed i and we are better than ever, but he travels for work mostly down south which is about 3 hours away , our lease is aboout to end in december and he wants me to move down there because im pregnant and i have a2 year old and he doesnt want me to be alone with two kids because hes usually gone for weeks at a time. But heres the thing his buddies are down there ad we almost got divorced because either his friends were always at my house eating everything up or they would go out and come home really late and this was when my daughter was just 3 months old. i know things are different but im affraid of things are going to go back to the way they used to be ...... WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINGS???

Are you working?

No im not working i havent worked since my daughter was born cause she has ashma and she gets sick alot

You'd pretty much have to come to an agreement about the living situation and the rules surrounding his friends and cross your fingers that he sticks to them. There's no way to know for sure unless you try, but it's been a bad situation before so he can't blame you for being suspicious of how it will be.

thats what i told him things almost came to end and im about to have another one i dont want to go thru it again especially with a new born and a 2 year old....

You'll either take the leap of faith or you won't. He'll either do the right thing by his family or he won't. No crystal ball in life, bunny. You have to decide what's best for you and if you trust him. If you don't then you have your answer.

awww thank you sooo much u are very nice....

I wish I had the answer for you. I bet you wish you had the answer for you! But you know what they say- if wishes were horses, we'd be knee deep in crap.   Good luck.

lol thats so true....thanks

Know off subject fro a min but just noticed we're due a day apart....
anyways......I'm had similar worries when my fiance and i were talking about moving.....He's from Ft. Lauderdale and we go there to visit friends and family at least once a month.....He's been getting mulitple offers for a really good paying job down there and my worry was also about being there with no family and him having all his friends and thinking he would want to go out all the time w/ his friends and leave me home with my daughter and a new baby (once i have the baby) He madde it very clear to me that he would not be going out every weekend and i would not be alone. i had other worries and we came to a conclusion and settled things. Just have a talk w/ your husband, talk about your worries and set some guidelines bedore you move. Good luck!

Quoting Momma DUS:“ Know off subject fro a min but just noticed we're due a day apart.... anyways......I'm had similar worries ... [snip!] ... settled things. Just have a talk w/ your husband, talk about your worries and set some guidelines bedore you move. Good luck!”

aww thats cool , are you excied for you new baby? i am i so excited, i lost a baby so being pregnant again its like a miracle fo rme cause they told me i had a 99% chance i couldnt ahve another one. but i was blessed again 
anyways, yea when he gets back from out of town tomorrow im going to sit down with him and have a long conversation with him. and hope for the best. thats good that you guys can talk like that and come to an agreement my husband is the same way NOW lol before he wasnt it was his way or no way but not anymore...

Quoting Denise Torres:“ aww thats cool , are you excied for you new baby? i am i so excited, i lost a baby so being pregnant ... [snip!] ... that and come to an agreement my husband is the same way NOW lol before he wasnt it was his way or no way but not anymore...”

Yeah i'm really excited, we too lost two baby's last yr and now i'm driving all the way to davenport which is about an hour and 15 mins from where we live to see a specialist. I pray everyday that all goes well w/ this pregnacy. I also wish you the best w/ your pregnancy.

I hope you guys can come to an agreement, i know sometimes it's not easy but it's something that must be doen to keep peace in the house...lol.... Good luck!