Lazy Men

ok, My husband drives me freekin nuts,because of his job,he has to be up at 6 am, so he always tells me hes to tired to stay up and help put out son to bed, well right now he is at his dumb ass friends house, and he just text me saying he was gunna be out a bit longer( its almost 1 am) because he drank to much, and he does this alot and tomarrow he will tell me he has to go to bed early cause he didnt get much sleep the night before, it pisses me off, he does this all the time, the shitty thing is I put our son to bed at 10 every night,I get up at 6 am with him mon-fri because he has a hard time waking up, and I have to be up at 5 am saturday and sunday because I work 6am-9pm those 2 days, and my son gets up for at least 1/2 houralmost every night, and I get up with him then, and on top of it all, Im 7 months pregnant, so ive been tryin to figure out why the hell he thinks he should get special treatment, he tells me its cause he works so hard and works all day, well he works 40 hrs a week in 5 days and i work 30 in 2 days (I work 15 hr shifts) and im a stay at home mom 5 days of the week. Does anyone else have a husband or boyfriend like that

Quoting ~*Angela*~:“ ok, My husband drives me freekin nuts,because of his job,he has to be up at 6 am, so he always tells ... [snip!] ... days (I work 15 hr shifts) and im a stay at home mom 5 days of the week. Does anyone else have a husband or boyfriend like that”

oh good god! How do you stand at the end of the day? I dont have to go through that thank god.. but if I did.. I'd be going off on him.

Yes -- men can be incosiderate. My fiance is lazy as hell and the baby isnt here yet I can imagine the arguments we will have when I need assistance

Quoting Eureka!:“ oh good god! How do you stand at the end of the day? I dont have to go through that thank god.. but if I did.. I'd be going off on him.”

I try to make him see how I feel, but he just gets mad and sayshe wishes Id see how hard he works, he used to not be like this until he met his dumb friend Chris

Quoting PicturePerfect/Boy!:“ Yes -- men can be incosiderate. My fiance is lazy as hell and the baby isnt here yet I can imagine the arguments we will have when I need assistance”

my husband also has the nerve to come home at the end of the day and call me lazy.

I was just complaining to a friend of mine tonight about something like this. My bf works to put a roof over our head but I do everything around the house. The only thing I ask of him is to walk the dogs and take the trash out. Well, he never notices if the trash is overflowing so I have to take it out and put it by the front door for him to take to the dumpster. If he does it cuz I ask him, he never puts a liner in the can. My son is almost 5 months old and he's been home with us for 4 months (was in nicu for 4 weeks) and since we've been home, he's never bathed the baby, fed him maybe 2x and changed his diaper 3x. When he gets home from work I at least want to pawn the baby off on him for a couple hours so I can relax, but he almost immediately goes on the computer and he may be holding the baby but not paying attention to him.

Some men just suck. Period!

*raises hand* right here...most the time

Quoting Tobys Mama♥[Lisa]:“ I was just complaining to a friend of mine tonight about something like this. My bf works to put a roof ... [snip!] ... immediately goes on the computer and he may be holding the baby but not paying attention to him. Some men just suck. Period!”

ya, men drive me insane. My husband used to not be like this, but this pregnancy was planned, we ended up breaking up about3 weeks after we found out we were pregnant, I kicked him out cause he kept lieing to me, well I moved back in with my mom cause I couldnt afford rent, then we were considering gettin back together, but I didnt want him to move in cause I was scared he didnt change, well he asked my mom if he could move in (not me) and he is lazy as hell and still lies, the stupid thing is there pointless lies, like who he is texting or how much alcohol he drank, its like whats the frickin point

I had one of those...and I left his sorry butt. Who cares if they are tired?!? They obviously don't care if we are tired. I got to the point of not doing anything for him at all anymore. I stopped buying him groceries, cleaning up his messes, waking him up in the morning, fixing him food....he wanted to belazy I showed him lazy then took our daughter and our unborn son and left. I cannot tolerate a man that behaves that way. That is no example to set for a child. If I were you I don't think I'd be able to keep my mouth shut. I would have cussed him out a long time ago.

Sorry if I sound really mean about it all...I'm really not. This is just one of those subjects that gets me going. I normally keep my mouth shut about everything and try to keep the peace...but when it comes to inconsideration I get angry

Quoting ChaseMeElizabeth:“ I had one of those...and I left his sorry butt. Who cares if they are tired?!? They obviously don't care ... [snip!] ... I normally keep my mouth shut about everything and try to keep the peace...but when it comes to inconsideration I get angry”

I dont keep my moth shut, he gets it from me all the time then he just complains about how all I do is want to fight, it drives me crazy

Quoting ~*Angela*~:“ I dont keep my moth shut, he gets it from me all the time then he just complains about how all I do is want to fight, it drives me crazy”

Thats what my fiance does he's always saying-you're mean or you have an attitude problem...I say No I just wont sit here and let you lay on your ass while Im doing everything. So if thats mean then oh well get over it

Quoting ~*Angela*~:“ ok, My husband drives me freekin nuts,because of his job,he has to be up at 6 am, so he always tells ... [snip!] ... days (I work 15 hr shifts) and im a stay at home mom 5 days of the week. Does anyone else have a husband or boyfriend like that”

Ok so my situation is a little different, he goes to his friends to get drunk at times, ...when I was pregnant he would sneak out when i was sleeping since i was tired most of the time and go get drunk ....and he alwys says he deserves it since he works in construstion 48 hrs a week......I work too. 

Quoting Juniors Mommy:“ Ok so my situation is a little different, he goes to his friends to get drunk at times, ...when I was ... [snip!] ... time and go get drunk ....and he alwys says he deserves it since he works in construstion 48 hrs a week......I work too. ”

omg, my husband does that exect thing, except sneek out, but he ever works in cunstruction, the shitty thing is right now he is workin like a mile from his best friends house, so he goes there everyother night dringin. last night (when I posted this topic) he went over there and didnt get home until 5 this mornin, and he was drunk

my man gets up at 3am to be to work at 4am... and he stayed up late last night cooking my dinner, doing the dishes, doing laundry, and he mopped the basement after i swept it. he also put the baby in her PJs and put her to sleep.

he has his days where he does nothing, but when he knows im mad at him, he tends to go the extra mile to make me happy.....and cuz he still wants to be able to get booty.