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RACISM on BABY GAGA

ban racists members
don't ban them, they need to be e-slapped by everyone
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RACISM on BABY GAGA

posted 1st Oct
well, this has been a long time coming.

some more fun racists have been hitting the boards in the past 24 hours, saying some very offensive things... giving TDC some fresh hatred and drama for all of us to mull over.


i've been of the conviction that this sort of behavior is best handled as a societal problem-- which each of you can decide to ignore or chastise as you see fit... instead of having me swoop in w/ the bannimator and lop off their heads w/ no repurcussions for their idiocy save not being able to hang out on BG.

that said, we do have people on here who feel that we should be more pro-active in removing racist individuals from bg.

so-- should we ban blatantly racist members?

or would you guys like the opportunity to e-slap them until they leave of their own accord?

personally, i tend not to get involved b/c it all moves too fast for me, but if i were there when the racism errupted, i'd have a fun socratic round of questioning them and showing them to be the fools that they are.

but-- i don't want to be overly stubborn about this, so i'm going to let you guys decide over the next couple of days how we handle racist members.
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I have 1 child & live in San Francisco, California
posted 1st Oct
i think anyone who makes racist comments towards other members should have their account banned for a week or so. After... 3 strikes... they're out and banned for good.
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I have 1 child & live in Toronto, Ontario
posted 1st Oct
I get sick of that crap!! Everybody is stupid   Not just us white folk  
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in ?
posted 1st Oct
i personally get very offended, but i choose to ignore it
it wouldnt matter to me one way or another
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Texas
posted 1st Oct
Where have I been? I never saw anything!


But, does it work both ways? If I'm called a "dumb white bitch" would they be banned if thats the outcome of this poll?
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I have 1 child & live in Fort Shafter, Hawaii
posted 1st Oct
I think we should just make them feel as ignorant as they sound and let them leave on their own. It is more fun to make them look like complete idiots.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Baton Rouge, Louisiana
posted 1st Oct
Racists exist--and I think it is healthy for them to find out that *most* people don't agree with them (at least not consciously, but that's a different issue).

Since they tend to eventually crawl back under the rocks they came from, I'm of a mind to let them be and to let outraged gaga members deal with the problem.
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I have 1 child & live in Connecticut
posted 1st Oct
my first thought was "YES OF COURSE BAN THEM!" but then I started thinking about it. Even if it's not race, there will always be someone stereotyping someone on here, be it their race, their age, their parenting skills....So if you immediately banned over race you'd have to ban over all of it.

I also think the majority of us don't tolerate things like that, and would stick up for someone if we saw something like that.
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I'm TTC since July '07, have 1 angel baby & live in Shreveport, Louisiana
posted 1st Oct

Quoting J E N N I F E R:“ Where have I been? I never saw anything! But, does it work both ways? If I'm called a "dumb white bitch" would they be banned if thats the outcome of this poll?”



http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about344057-34.html
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Washington
posted 1st Oct
Well, people do have a right to freedom of speech, but how far is that right allowed before its taken overboard?
I hate alot of white people, but being white myself, does that make me a racist?
Alot of the girls on here hate the pregnant teens, do they get banned for saying they hate children having children?
Just sayin'..
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 1st Oct
Quoting [tiph][6 weeks left!]:“ I think we should just make them feel as ignorant as they sound and let them leave on their own. It is more fun to make them look like complete idiots.”





the thing is, they never back down, and think they are right
so theres nothing we can really say to make them feel dumb
they just come back at you 10x more ignorant

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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Texas
posted 1st Oct
I cant stand the racist members and honestly dont think they should be allowed to have a say in any of the threads. I think they should go find a different website to voice their rude racists comments. It would be nice if they were banned from the site. Thanks mama  
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 1st Oct
I think that everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Baby Gaga is like the real world with real people in it and EVERYDAY you face racism in the real world. There is the ignore button option and I don't think that people use it enough. They could choose to be more pro-active in staying away from the racist people, but they choose to egg it on.
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I have 2 kids & live in Jacksonville, Arkansas
posted 1st Oct
Quoting ♥Amanda Laura:“ i think anyone who makes racist comments towards other members should have their account banned for a week or so. After... 3 strikes... they're out and banned for good.”

  very smart!!!!!!
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I have 2 kids & live in New Orleans, Louisiana
posted 1st Oct
I dont think they should be banned at all. I think that if they stick around a while, they will realize that everyone on this site is not going to put up with their ignorance and move on.
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I have 1 child & live in Denham Springs, Louisiana
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