BEAUTIFUL UPDATE

My friend just emailed me a nice little message on myspace..
I didnt know she was trying to get pregnant..
Which really comes to me as a suprise

but this is the message I got


hey wats good wit u? im pretty good i guess, me and marcus is gonn a fuck like no bobies busness this wensday. lol lol lol =D and he aint gonna use a condom we gots a whole hour and a half.....

Now my first reaction is cuss her out and tell her how it is..
but the rational part of me is telling me to just talk to her about it and see can i change her mind...
what do you guys think?? Ive been way to blunt with people here latley and i just dont know if i wanna be 'mean' to her.



UPDATTTEEEEEEEE:: she just sent me this message  
Well;; I sent her this first of all
welp your gettin it anyway.

I dont think it would be very smart for you to "try" for a baby!! I dont think you should risk anything that Marcus might have (not saying he does but you dont know)
You need to really THINK about what you are doin!! If you really want to have a baby you should wait until you have finished school and you have grown up more.
You should really think about what you will be doin to a baby if you bring it into the world now. You shold really think do you want it to live this kinda life.
I almost bet you dont.

So i wasnt mean!!
and she said this  

yea ur right ill just make him use a condom... thanks =D

I know its not the greatest but still atleast she is trying to prevent

I'm all for bluntness and telling it like it is, but that message is just buck nasty.  

Be mean. For the love of God, be mean.

Quoting jnazmom:“ I'm all for bluntness and telling it like it is, but that message is just buck nasty.   Be mean. For the love of God, be mean.”

i think im going to because, wow.. i know i didnt "ruin" my life but damn it would have been easier to wait

Quoting jnazmom:“ I'm all for bluntness and telling it like it is, but that message is just buck nasty.   Be mean. For the love of God, be mean.”

  

i can see reacting both ways. I would probably start nice, but if she got all crazy and cocky i would get rude haha  

I would just tell her straight up. That message was nasty.

How old is she?

she sounds like a scruff cow.

She is 17 I started off nice asking her if she wanted a baby and she said yeah she did.. I asked her if she wanted my honest opinion.. and im gonna give it to her. I really think she is a dumbass if she TRYS for a baby (not knockin anyone on here who is 17 and pregnant cause lord knows I was at one point) but wow.. what has the world come too?

Quoting illyanna nicole:“ She is 17 I started off nice asking her if she wanted a baby and she said yeah she did.. I asked her ... [snip!] ... (not knockin anyone on here who is 17 and pregnant cause lord knows I was at one point) but wow.. what has the world come too?”

You need to tell her to wait. I was 16 when I had my daughter. It's hard, and I'm sure you know that. she needs a reality check if she thinks babies are all fun and games.

I think you should tell her to rip her uterus out. No offense to your friend (ok maybe some, but none to you lol) but she sounds like a fucking moron and stupid people should not reproduce lol.

Wow. Just....wow. It's one thing alone that she's only seventeen and trying to get pregnant, but if her grammar is any indication of anything....O_O

I say, tell her off. I think she really needs a harsh perspective thrown at her.

Quoting illyanna nicole:“ My friend just emailed me a nice little message on myspace.. I didnt know she was trying to get pregnant.. ... [snip!] ... what do you guys think?? Ive been way to blunt with people here latley and i just dont know if i wanna be 'mean' to her.”

okay... you should let her know about her self. She is really not thinking.

i did the samae thing now im 3 wks pregnant but this is planned to an extent. But she really seems immature to have a kid in the first place and second of all how does she plan to support this kid and her and this dude?


but try to be nice

she's an idiot.

i'd tell it like it is. tell her to borrow cerah for a day, lmao.

Tell her to get a puppy, YAY!

She can buy a LV knock-off dog carrier, and walk around town looking super cool!

Quoting IRENE™:“ she's an idiot. i'd tell it like it is. tell her to borrow cerah for a day, lmao.”

lmao i thought about it. But i decided against it