babyshower question

Okay my fiance isn't going to be at my babyshower & I'm like really pissed about it because I really wanted him to be there.. are guys not supposed to be there completely or do the fathers usually go? Who had their baby's father's at their baby shower?

All of the ones I've been to NO guys went. But a lot of women are changing it up and having guys at theirs. I probably won't have my SO there because he would be like one of the only guys and I'm sure he'd be bored lol.

It's called Jack & Jill when it's man/woman.

One of my showers was Jack & Jill

i am having a girl only baby shower my hubby will not be there....

my husband didnt go to mine.. My sis n laws husband didnt go to hers.. I know sometimes the guys make an apperance to load up the gifts but its up to u.. My husband wont be going to the one im having for this baby either.. to me its something for the women.

Quoting .:I ♥ Caitlyn:.:“ Okay my fiance isn't going to be at my babyshower & I'm like really pissed about it because I really ... [snip!] ... are guys not supposed to be there completely or do the fathers usually go? Who had their baby's father's at their baby shower?”

well,i had my husband at my 1st one and my mother and everyone thought that i was weird for letting him come because they never had their husbands at their babyshowers.

My fiance was at mine and there were a few other guys there also... n I've been 2 more since then where guys attended or atleast made an appearance...

My boyfriend is only going to come at the end to help pack everything in the truck... He already told me he absolutly isn't coming until then and really I'm not so attached to him that I need him to be there so its all good to me...

Quoting TabbyA:“ my husband didnt go to mine.. My sis n laws husband didnt go to hers.. I know sometimes the guys make ... [snip!] ... gifts but its up to u.. My husband wont be going to the one im having for this baby either.. to me its something for the women.”

Yeah but the thing is I don't even get a say in it,neither does he, the person throwing the baby shower for me said he couldn't go.. & I find that kind of messed up.. I wanted him there & he wants to be there..she told me first it's a jack & jill, thenshedecided no guys at all.. it pisses me off because I was looking forward to him being there..

just tell him to come at the end... to "pick you up"

Quoting .:I ♥ Caitlyn:.:“ Okay my fiance isn't going to be at my babyshower & I'm like really pissed about it because I really ... [snip!] ... are guys not supposed to be there completely or do the fathers usually go? Who had their baby's father's at their baby shower?”

My husband was there all throughout the baby shower... He invited some of his friends too so he won't be out of place... I had my fil and bils there too...  

My fiance isn't coming to mine either. He'd be bored anyway. I figure it be much funner to just be all girls instead of dragging the guys there to have a bad time.

My fiance is going to be at mine and he wants to be and i think that should be how it is for everyone, its another experience they should spend together as mommy and daddy to be, i think

My fiance went to the one his mother threw for us. Alot of men went to it, but I think that was just a party that I was invited too, because there was alot of alcohol and his mom kinda just ignored me. I just had my 2 baby shower today, my mom threw this one. It was all woman. It was fun, but a little awkward it got started an hour late and that threw off the whole party. It'skinda sad both baby showers were a bust  

My fiance went to the one his mother threw for us. Alot of men went to it, but I think that was just a party that I was invited too, because there was alot of alcohol and his mom kinda just ignored me. I just had my 2 baby shower today, my mom threw this one. It was all woman. It was fun, but a little awkward it got started an hour late and that threw off the whole party. It'skinda sad both baby showers were a bust