Forums > TTC and Adoptionby: ProundWife TTC in 2008

TTC after a D&C

posted 28th Sep
Has anyone had a d &c and then wanted to get preganat rigth away..bc im getting one tomarrow and im curious how long you have to wait to try and how long it took people to conceive after they had gotten one...
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I'm TTC since October '08, have 1 angel baby & live in Little Chute, Wisconsin
posted 28th Sep
i has a d&c last feb, they found over 40 palups on my right tube an a BIG mass on my left an endometriosis was startin to set in but they scrapd evrythin out thank god.. they wanted me to wait 6months but i said no to jus do it an if i wuda waited dey wuda made me have a historctomy fone   but they caught evrythin in time... i was on BC after that to an stopped takin' it in last Nov an got prego in Jan
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I have 1 child & live in Inwood,
posted 28th Sep
Quoting ProundWife:“ Has anyone had a d &c and then wanted to get preganat rigth away..bc im getting one tomarrow and ... [snip!] ... tomarrow and im curious how long you have to wait to try and how long it took people to conceive after they had gotten one...”

I had a D&C and my doc recommended to wait 2 normal cycles before trying, we waited 3 and now I'm 38 weeks
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Houston, Texas
posted 28th Sep
Quoting Soon to be Ayden's mommy!:“ I had a D&C and my doc recommended to wait 2 normal cycles before trying, we waited 3 and now I'm 38 weeks”

congrats to yu mamas were due da same month yur ahead for me by 3weeks
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I have 1 child & live in Inwood,
posted 28th Sep
Quoting Davon's Mamii:“ congrats to yu mamas were due da same month yur ahead for me by 3weeks ”

aww congrats to you too  
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Houston, Texas
posted 28th Sep
Quoting Soon to be Ayden's mommy!:“ I had a D&C and my doc recommended to wait 2 normal cycles before trying, we waited 3 and now I'm 38 weeks”



go thats nice to hear that you got pregnant right away then..becaue i think thats the only thing getting  me threw this mc is knowing that we are going to try asap
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I'm TTC since October '08, have 1 angel baby & live in Little Chute, Wisconsin
posted 28th Sep
Quoting ProundWife:“ go thats nice to hear that you got pregnant right away then..becaue i think thats the only thing getting me threw this mc is knowing that we are going to try asap”


It was really hard on us when we had our MC as well. And at first, I felt like I HAD to get pregnant right away, no waiting no thing! But by the time it was time to start trying I didn't have those emotions anymore, and I was more ready emotionally to get pregnant again.

It's hard to explain, but there's a rollercoaster of emotions you go through, and in the end you'll be happy you waited at least 2 months!
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Houston, Texas
posted 28th Sep
Quoting Soon to be Ayden's mommy!:“ It was really hard on us when we had our MC as well. And at first, I felt like I HAD to get pregnant ... [snip!] ... explain, but there's a rollercoaster of emotions you go through, and in the end you'll be happy you waited at least 2 months!”

was is scary when you got it done..bc i think its going to hit me hard and sink in more when i get to the doctors bc im not bleeding yet so i still seem pregant even tho i know its happing if that makes since
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I'm TTC since October '08, have 1 angel baby & live in Little Chute, Wisconsin
posted 28th Sep
Quoting ProundWife:“ was is scary when you got it done..bc i think its going to hit me hard and sink in more when i get to ... [snip!] ... more when i get to the doctors bc im not bleeding yet so i still seem pregant even tho i know its happing if that makes since”


It was hard, they had me out in the waiting room and there were all of these pregnant ladies around me and ones with little babies, they finally decided to pull me into a room to wait.

I didn't have the money to go to the ER so they opted to do the procedure in office, and all they gave me was a tylenol with codine, and a shot in my uterus for the pain, so the pain was really hard to bear with ontop of the emotions.

If they give you the option to put you under I would highly recommend it. When i got home I was really tired so all I did was sleep, but I cried day in and day out, and it was so hard on me. Luckily my husband was there for me, and he did his best to help me through the guilt.

All I can really say is that time is the best healer. And over time the pain will dissapate, but try not to rush it, because it will make it worse. Just hold your head up high, and be happy in the fact that at least you can get pregnant, and when your time comes, you'll be pregnant again, and hopefully carry to term and have your precious baby!

Also know that I've been miserable this whole pregnancy because I've been so scared of losing him. I STILL worry to this day! So be prepared! But there are a lot of wonderful people on this forum to help you through any kind of emotion you're going through!

I'm really sorry about your loss, and I will pray for you to have the stregnth you need to get through this!
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Houston, Texas
posted 28th Sep
Quoting Soon to be Ayden's mommy!:“ It was hard, they had me out in the waiting room and there were all of these pregnant ladies around ... [snip!] ... going through! I'm really sorry about your loss, and I will pray for you to have the stregnth you need to get through this!”


thanks
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I'm TTC since October '08, have 1 angel baby & live in Little Chute, Wisconsin
posted 28th Sep
I had a D&C back in June and physically I have to say it is not a difficult prodedure at all. It only take about 15 minutes and I had some light bleeding and mild cramping for a few days (similar to a period). Emotionally it was a different story. Right after the D&C I felt an enormous amount of emptyness. I still sometimes do. I miss my baby and I miss being pregnant every single day. It does get better though. My doctor recommended to wait AT LEAST one regular cycle. And I decided to wait and I am very happy I did. After 6 weeks I started ovulating again but I didn't get my period until 12 weeks post D&C. All I had was bad cramps during the time when af was supposed to show. My docotor now said that this is because my hormones were back on track but my uterin lining needed more time to built up. Had I tried earlier I would probably have suffered another m/c because of insufficient lining. It can go well and there are many women out there and on this forum who have received right after a D&C but for me personally it was the right decision to wait one cyle. Now my doctor gave me the green light to ttc again and even if I would lose it again I wouldn't have to blame myself. That is very important for me. Don't be scared because of the many weeks it took me to get my period back. On average it only takes 6 - 8 weeks. I am very sorry you have to go through this and truely wish you all the best and a healthy happy pregnancy very soon!!!
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I'm TTC since February '08, have 1 angel baby & live in Liberia, Costa Rica
posted 5th Oct
I had a D&C 1st August 08 due to a blighted ovum, I was 10 weeks pregnant, I wanted to fall pregnant again straight away. My next period was 30th August and now im just over 5 weeks pregnant. I fell preg on my 1st cycle. I had read all over the internet that you are very likely to fall preg straight after a M/C and it was true for me.
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I'm due June 9th & live in Perth, Australia
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