re: SO's internet habits (help)

Quoting alee2790:“ exactly... as if they never make mistakes.... and then when you're doing what he wants you to do and ... [snip!] ... he gets pissed. ugh. its really frustrating! but i really really do love him, and i hate when he gets upset like that. you?”

Yup.. same thing. And if it's my idea and it works... he claims it as his own... what an ass. And I'm not too fond of putting myself in front of him either. But it's something that needs to be done, and I'm going to make sure I get through to him or away from him.

Quoting Ashley (5weekstilbaby):“ Yup.. same thing. And if it's my idea and it works... he claims it as his own... what an ass. And I'm ... [snip!] ... of him either. But it's something that needs to be done, and I'm going to make sure I get through to him or away from him.”

yeah, i know! haha, i remember a few days ago something was wrong with the car and he couldn't figure out what it was and i suggested something (i dont remember what) and he said no. then later he goes, "hey i figured out what it was" and says the same thing i suggested earlier. lol. im just like "oh okay"

but yeah, most of the time he always comes first. but with the baby in the picture, he has to come second. i still love him tons, but i love this baby more than anything period and he's not even born yet.

Quoting alee2790:“ yeah, i know! haha, i remember a few days ago something was wrong with the car and he couldn't figure ... [snip!] ... he has to come second. i still love him tons, but i love this baby more than anything period and he's not even born yet.”

i hear ya... you gonna talk to him?

Quoting Ashley (5weekstilbaby):“ i hear ya... you gonna talk to him? ”

I think I will. Or try to at least. We'll see how it goes.  

Quoting alee2790:“ I think I will. Or try to at least. We'll see how it goes.  ”

I'll let you know how mine goes, and if it takes about a week, well, it prolly didn't go so good lol.

Quoting Ashley (5weekstilbaby):“ I'll let you know how mine goes, and if it takes about a week, well, it prolly didn't go so good lol.”

ha, yeah... good luck though. hopefully it'll go okay

You both sound like you know what you need to do.
I wish you both the best, and i also wish you the strengh to make the choice that is right for you.

Good luck.

Quoting MandyLoo:“ I would be pissed if my husband got on our computer and BLOCKED sites from me. ”

i dont care if he is pissed. It pisses me off that porn is looked at one MY comp.

u should download refrog keylogger!!!

Quoting Ashley (5weekstilbaby):“ That's what I was thinking... and the fact that he's gone almost all day every day doesn't help. I was ... [snip!] ... bed asleep, and put them up on seperate pages. I'm just going to let him find them when he gets home. Whenever that may be...”

Me and my SO had some Myspace issues.  I told him he could he either quit or I was going to throw him out.  He was doing sorta the same thing.  Just browsing local women.  Why, I have no idea.  I don't know if they're just such dogs the have to look at everything that passes by or what.  But you do have a right to say something about the locals.  And if the porn bothers you in any way, you should tell him.  

Quoting h0llie:“ u should download refrog keylogger!!!”

 
What is that???

Quoting h0llie:“ u should download refrog keylogger!!!”

ooh... that sounds nifty... as long as it doesn't take up too much space, i just might... depending on what it does lol. i didn't talk to him last night, but i eased my way to a point where i could when i get home from school today. don't get me wrong, i had plenty of opportunities, i just didn't.

Quoting jessica-burke:“ i dont care if he is pissed. It pisses me off that porn is looked at one MY comp.”

I guess IMO though, you should sit down and talk to him about how you don't like it.
If he still continues to look at it, then maybe you should leave him. Because he obviously does not respect your wishes.
But blocking websites, seems ridiculous to me. He is not a child. Just because you blocked porn websites on your computer does not solve the problem.