idk .. long vent

ive been calling around all day to find somone to do a blood test and i havent found anyone and i called the local hospital and i have to be refered by a doctor. so i just got annoyed with it. & well hubby came home about 2 with 2 test lol. & i have taken one and i got a negative. ugh i hate showing him them cause i feel so bad cause i feel like a failer cause i cant give him a postive test.... i feel like failure cause i keep having all these signs and so on but yet i cant even get a test right. ugh i hate crying over the stupid stuff. i am not stressed about it i just feel so bad for what i am puttting jason through he is such an amazing guy and husband & he wants this and idk
sorry ladies ive asked so much

Blood test to see if you are pregnant? Can you just call your regular doctor to do it?

Best advice, stop trying so hard and let it come naturally. And pray. It'll come to you when the time is right. Best of Luck!!!

You've only been trying since August? just give it some time....me and my hubby started trying in january and didnt get pregnant until march! I felt the same way when i tested in January and February...i started getting very discouraged, until i realized that getting pregnant is harder than it seems. The day i got my positive...it was definetly worth the wait! just give it some time!

I got off my birth control March 2007 and got pregnant March 2008. Not sure what your specific situation is but you haven't been trying that long. I am sure your hubby understands it's out of your control to you shouldn't feel like a failure. It will happen when it happens and in the mean time you are stressing yourself out. Good luck to you.

Quoting N Ireland Wife:“ I got off my birth control March 2007 and got pregnant March 2008. Not sure what your specific situation ... [snip!] ... feel like a failure. It will happen when it happens and in the mean time you are stressing yourself out. Good luck to you.”

no not the same... i havent ever taken birth control. i just never wanted to idk why

I understand , im in the same boat.
3 weeks late getting sick, tired, moody, boobs are killing me, some smells make me sick. and yet a BFN on 3 test and 3 blank ones.. im going crazy! but im going to my OB on friday, yay for blood test !! i hope you can find a place to get it done...  

Quoting -Aria-:“ I understand , im in the same boat. 3 weeks late getting sick, tired, moody, boobs are killing me, ... [snip!] ... ones.. im going crazy! but im going to my OB on friday, yay for blood test !! i hope you can find a place to get it done...  ”

i am the same way. yea ive been calling all day and ugh it sucks so bad but ive had
ive been throwing up & nauseous like crazy
my boobs hurt
dizzy & headaches
im 2 weeks late on AF
odd as anything cravings
moody as ever
tired way more then normal
& my tummy is hard

i understand it takes time but i know my heart mind bosy soul & my husband still says im preg

Quoting Mrs. Krol.:“ i am the same way. yea ive been calling all day and ugh it sucks so bad but ive had ive been throwing ... [snip!] ... & my tummy is hard i understand it takes time but i know my heart mind bosy soul & my husband still says im preg”

I know what your talking about, I was the same. I wasn't due to start for a few days and I told my husband I was going to take a test and he said "why, your not even late" but I knew in my heart I was pregnant. I waited until he went to work and took a test and sure enough it was positive. It was the strangest thing. All the other months I thought I was but it was more or less hope. This time it was my gut instinct telling me that I was pregnant.

wouldnt your ob doc do it????


oh and another thing i pee like 2-3 times an hour lol

Quoting -Aria-:“ wouldnt your ob doc do it???? oh and another thing i pee like 2-3 times an hour lol”

yea i pee all the time but that is normal for me but lately its been like omg i have to pee again lol.

Quoting N Ireland Wife:“ I know what your talking about, I was the same. I wasn't due to start for a few days and I told my husband ... [snip!] ... the other months I thought I was but it was more or less hope. This time it was my gut instinct telling me that I was pregnant.”

yea well see i have this gut feelings that i am and i feel like such a failure cause i know i am i just cant get the proof & jason my DH even believes i am

I just wanna know!!!!


My husband keeps telling me i am.. I hope hes right!! ive never been later before ever! always right on time..

ahhhhh!!!1

Quoting -Aria-:“ I just wanna know!!!! My husband keeps telling me i am.. I hope hes right!! ive never been later before ever! always right on time.. ahhhhh!!!1”

i know... havent ever been late ever.

my hubby knew way before me, he said it was like my demeanor changed. Never know ladies, maybe hubby have that instinct.

Nicole