re: Am i wrong?

I dont believe you are wrong at all.
I honestly completely feel your pain, for the most part my bf acts the same way as urs. It hurts them too , but in a much diff way then it does us and to a lot lesser of a degree. *believe it or not one of the reasons he may not want to try again is because he probably doesnt want to see you hurting again*
He def is acting cold and unsupportive of your feelings, and no matter how much you try to talk to him and explain it to him, he will never understand (trust me ive been there).... I dont think that you should have to go to his sister babyshower , but i do think that you should call her and explain why you arent going. Tell her that you are sorry ur missing her babyshower but that it would be too painful for you. I cant even see a pregnant woman in the grocery store without gettin upset so i couldnt imagine goin to a babyshower... well good luck and god bless mama. Stay strong.

Quoting Wifey Sayroo:“ my hubby just walked out on me....he had to go of work but besides the point heres why: his sisters ... [snip!] ... no who the fuck says that to you? only him. and now hes texting me with the baby i love you shit, fuck him. ugh what do i do!”

Neither of you is wrong. It sounds like he's having a hard time seeing you so distraught, and you're having a hard time feeling like you're alone in that. This is probably just a good sign that you guys need to have a serious talk about the whole issue. Explain how you feel, and that it's going to take you a while to stop grieving so hard, and that there's nothing wrong with that. Also let him know that you need to hear how he feels, because you need to know that you're not alone. And if you want to TTC, you need to talk about that too. He might be afraid to have you go through this again, especially considering how bad you're hurting now.

That's a lot of assumptions I know, but you guys aren't alone. My husband and I had a similar fight, though not quite as bad because we were stuck on a nine-hour drive together and we couldn't escape, so we had to be nice.   Good luck girl!