Anal sex while prego?
posted 4th Oct '06
I know even when you aren't prego it is kinda dangerous so does anyone have any personal views on anal sex while prego? Or even a website with some facts would be helpful. Thanx Sam
quoteposted 6th Oct '06
anal sex while pregnant is pretty much the same as anal sex any other time... you'll want to use a condom, lube, and go sloooow. if you've had anal sex before you already know all of this. there really isn't anything different about having anal sex while you're pregnant than otherwise.
if you have more specific questions, i'll be happy to answer them!
quoteposted 16th Oct '06
my boyfriend wanted to have anal sex not too long ago...but i warned him of the constipation that comes with pregnancy and he changed his mind lol!!!
i didnt want to do it...im pretty sure its safe...but i think it would be super uncomfortable pregnant.
quoteposted 18th Oct '06
To be honest my husband and I have talked about anal sex but I told him maybe after the baby. I've had anal before and it hurt soooooooooo bad even when he did go slow. My husband and I have never had anal sex together and he is curious about it. I told him that it can be nice and it can be hurtful, and that I'm not a huge fan of it but for him I'd try anything once.
quoteposted 19th Oct '06
I had anal once and I hated it hated it hated it...........Theres no point anyways!!! If I were you I wouldn't even think about it while ur prego...not only the constipation,but hemriods arn't pretty thats the main reason I just don't do it ...I'm pron to get them and anal just dosent work with me if feels like your taking a dump the whole way threw anyways and unless your a real kinky bitch then hes gona be the only one enjoying it!!!!
quoteposted 20th Oct '06
Thank you for that Onehotmamma88... lol... I guess Im considerd one kinky bitch then...
I actually do find anal sex stimulating .... the reason so many women find it soooo painful is because they are not in the right frame of mind for it... if you let the pain be your main focus... you will never get anything out of the whole experience...
one good way my husband and i have found is that if he stimulates me vaginally during anal intercorse it helps ... it also helps that you stimulate yourself as well ... its not ALL up to him to please you ... you have to please yourself too... and nobody knows how to better then you.... I find that practicing all three makes for a killer orgasim ...
it also helps to let your partner know to go slow and then when YOU feel comfortable with it the speed can progress.. It takes a lot of work to make anal intercourse work... but when done right it can be quite pleasureable for both him and for you... like anything else though... Dont do anything You are not comfortable with...
I hope this helped... take care of yourselves and your babies... and have a great weekend...
quoteposted 20th Oct '06
If you're comfortable enough to do it, go for it. Just remember: lube, lube, and more lube and tell your man to go slow. Don't do it too often though, or you can end up with hemmorhoids. Those definatly aren't fun...
quoteposted 24th Oct '06
NEW MOMMY TO BE wrote: Thank you for that Onehotmamma88... lol... I guess Im considerd one kinky bitch then...
I must be too, lol.
My advice is pretty much what everyone else has said. Use lots of lube and make sure you're comfortable. Go very slow until the intial pain decrease and make sure your partner knows you're in control. If you say it hurts and slow down or stop, then he does just that.
Right now, I'm 13 weeks pregnant and have had no problems with anal sex. Truth be told, I'm starting to find the missionary position uncomfortable. My boyfriend is getting pretty good at taking his weight off me, especially my stomach
quoteposted 27th Oct '06
i let my husband have anal sex with me a few times a year. as like a special treat or if we are being kinky. i tried to have anal sex with him during my last pregnancy and for me it was just too uncomfy and painful while pregnant. so this time around i just told him he will have to wait until after the baby is born.
quoteI'm TTC since December '08, have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in
New Yorkposted 3rd Nov '06
I'm a kinky bitch too then!! I love anal...the key is you have to relax and use lots of lube specially if your man is well endowed. I think it's a whole different kind of orgasm in there than vaginaly or clitoraly. If your not into it at first...try rubbing yourself...sure way of getting yourself fired up for it!!! If you don't have Hemi's or constipated...I'd say go for it! Good luck!
quoteposted 3rd Nov '06
I'm a pain-slut, so the pain of anal is not an issue for me.
I have not found any type of sex uncomfortable yet, and I'm 14 weeks along. And anal sex is perfectly safe.
quoteposted 7th Nov '06
lol... pain slut .... thats funny .... I think ill join you on that though... the more it hurts the better it feels...
quoteposted 7th Nov '06
I've been abstaining from anal due to the ridiculous amount of gas that I've had. I may like a little pain with my pleasure, but I'm no sadist. If you know what I mean. But for any one who's curious but scared, try stimulating yourself during vaginal intercourse. I've found that my slender lady fingers are much easier to take on in the beginning than my husbands thick mechanic ones. Remember to relax, if you can, anal sex can be a lot of fun. It brings a whole new level of trust to the relationship as well.
Good luck to all you freaky ladies!
After all we all are in the end.
No pun intended.
quoteposted 7th Nov '06
I think this has been the most entertaining post to read! I havn't had anal sex since I found out I was prego but I did before. It just hasn't come up, I'm not avoiding it. So anyway my advice, RELAX and hop on top! If you're on top then you control the pressure and the speed and well everything. If he wants it bad enough, and they all do, then he'll be patient and let you get the hang of it. Start off vaginally and start thinking about it, add lub while fooling around and just see how it goes. It'll hurt if you're tense. If you're relaxed then it'll happen a lot easier. I had a bf in the past that wanted it so i tried but I was really nervous so it hurt. With my bf now (and daddy to the bundle of joy growing in my tummy) I felt comfortable so I initiated it. He had never done it and didn't think to pressure me about it at all. I think that played a huge part in my comfort level. GOOD LUCK GIRLS, and eventhough you shouldn't "knock it till you tried it" try again if you had a bad experience. Its really quite ummm fun.
quoteposted 11th Nov '06
Look if you feel comfortable do it. There isn't any problem for the baby! I had anal sex before getting pregnad an during pregnesy. I did'nt have any problem and some timew i liked more. Only at the 29th week and after i felt some pain because the baby was very low and there was no so mach space in the area.
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