I AM SO ANGRY!

My husband has been in Iraq for about 7 months....and he finally is coming home soon. But he doesn't even want to see me when he comes back he told me to wait until I am due." Supposedly" he really loves me but why would he don't want to see me soon? He is so weird. I feel like I don't really even know him that well. He doesn't really talk to me. I've always felt so alone with him. I am having his first child. I am the negative-type of person and coming from a broken family I am always "watching out" for him to leave or ready to leave him in case. He always told me he'll always be with me but supposedly when I told him something I did (minor) that he didn't like he went on myspace and posted that he was single. He doesn't even seem that enthuastic about becoming and father and I just expect for him to be thrilled. I feel like an idiot for being so availiable to him or just I've opened too much to him is that weird considering that I am married to him? But it feels like I open way too much. Am I being negative?

UGH! I am so piss. I finally told him I did wanted to go see him and he was like okay fine. Then when he called me on te phone I ended up changing my mind because I didn't want to have the baby without my family and it would feel like me running off and my family been really supportive of my baby.So I told him I changed my mind because of that and when he gets out of the marine corp we won't have insurance. I want to make sure the baby gets born here and at least get medicaid because babies get sick right.So I figured he'll be kind of upset right. He sent me a message saying how I shouldn't even go over(CA where he isstationed)there after I have the baby and it would be better for me to stay here. He gets out in Sept of 2009 so that would be like 9 months after I have my baby. But wtf first he said yeah he would love me being there with the baby because originally was gonna stay in Georgia now afterwards fuken a decided that I should just stay here. I explained to him that I want the baby to be with him.He's the father and that it needs him. We need to be a family. And he's like I'm being overdramatic. The probably is see I work for my family. They really would need me here but if I work nobody would take care of my baby. I don't want to neglect our baby. He won't understand. I feel so insecure. Like he doesn't want to be a father or something. I'm fuken tired of pushing the daddy thing on him. Is what I'm doing right? Or shuld I go ahead and do the the independent thing and finish college and raise my baby by myself? It just disappoints me how he's acting. I'm so confuse with that man!!!

you're married and he doesn't want to see you ?

somethings not right there.

What was the "minor" thing that you did?

um, your husband is weird, and something is off. And, no, you can't be "too open" with your husband. I would try to get to the bottom of it.

Quoting NonsenseMom:“ you're married and he doesn't want to see you ? somethings not right there.”

      

Ugh, yeah I know supposed I really really miss him too and it's been sucky being alone. He said it would be a waste of money for me to fly there then in dec. he'll come here. Because see he's suppose to be here for my labor and I guess I'm suppose to stay here healed then go to CA with him.

I'm not sure what the minor thing was, but it obviously had a huge affect on your hubby!!
He's probably just scared to death to go back to how things were, or afraid that it WONT go back to how things were before.
Keep watch about PTSD, it's so common for soldiers coming back from the war.

Quoting Sam♥:“ What was the "minor" thing that you did?”

I went on yahoo messenger like I went on it and then sign off cuz im too lazy to go into the email part so I told him and he went berserk.

Quoting Bisonbird:“ um, your husband is weird, and something is off. And, no, you can't be "too open" with your husband. I would try to get to the bottom of it.”

I agree!!

Quoting Sunkissed Sweetheart:“ I'm not sure what the minor thing was, but it obviously had a huge affect on your hubby!! He's probably ... [snip!] ... that it WONT go back to how things were before. Keep watch about PTSD, it's so common for soldiers coming back from the war.”

You think so?

Quoting mrs.maciel:“ I went on yahoo messenger like I went on it and then sign off cuz im too lazy to go into the email part so I told him and he went berserk.”

i dont get it.
have yall made an agreement not to get on messenger or something? has messenger caused trouble in the past or something.
because THAT is really weird.. 

Quoting Hannah[BFBFB]bloon:“ i dont get it. have yall made an agreement not to get on messenger or something? has messenger caused trouble in the past or something. because THAT is really weird.. ”

ya, i didn't understand that either?

Quoting Hannah[BFBFB]bloon:“ i dont get it. have yall made an agreement not to get on messenger or something? has messenger caused trouble in the past or something. because THAT is really weird.. ”

um yeah, he doesn't like me getting onto it.

so were you just seeing if you had mail? Like my yahoo will pop up that i have messages, is that what you are talking about?

Quoting Sunkissed Sweetheart:“ so were you just seeing if you had mail? Like my yahoo will pop up that i have messages, is that what you are talking about?”

yes