Why does he LIE?

My husband says he is in love with my belly bump, that I do not doubt! But then he turns around and says how sexy I am pregnant! Let me tell you, these love handles are not sexy, and the celulite spots that have popped up on my legs are not sexy, and my boobs being the size of watermelons, yeah ok maybe that is sexy to him, but they are huge.
He works a lot and is really tired when he comes home, but there has been once in the last 2 months that he has shown me he thinks I am sexy. You know what happen that night before we went to bed he became very sick. And therefore I think men should keep theire "I think you look SEXY" to themselves. Because it is bad enough, that I feel like a blimp, or a hefty garbage bag, and then to be told how sexy i am with no back up is not helping!!!!!!!!!

I have heard a lot of men say pregnant women are sexy. Esp when you are carrying their child.

Feel lucky he calls you sexy some guys call their pregnant gfs or wives fat asses...
Personally I loved it when Tony told me I was sexy. I would feel so gross but Tony always cheered me up.

To each their own.

I'm sorry, but are you saying you would rather receive critisism about how you look?

Maybe your husband is in love with you, and no amount of cellulite ruins you for him?

I don't really get the problem. Just because you're in the dumps with your self esteem doesn't mean you're ugly or that everyone thinks so. Chin up mama.

lol, better then him telling you, that you look like a whale. Or not saying anything then you come on here all "He never tells me I'm beautiful like he use to!" Give him a break..  

Quoting Baby Ynot!:“ Feel lucky he calls you sexy some guys call their pregnant gfs or wives fat asses... Personally I loved it when Tony told me I was sexy. I would feel so gross but Tony always cheered me up.”

i am glad that he finds me sexy, so he says! I just wish he would show me, the cry isn't for him thinking i am sexy, I just wish he would show me a little! I want him to show me some attention or affection!

Quoting Waiting to meet Kilynn:“ i am glad that he finds me sexy, so he says! I just wish he would show me, the cry isn't for him thinking ... [snip!] ... cry isn't for him thinking i am sexy, I just wish he would show me a little! I want him to show me some attention or affection!”

Oh ok I know what you mean... If I wanted attention I'd just shove my ass in Tony's face and I'd get all the attention I wanted