If you had been in a relationship with someone whom you loved dearly years ago..
and he came back into your life for whatever reason...
and things were different than they were before..

would you think about it??

of course, husbands and real life asside. but hypothetically speaking.

It depends what's different now besides that you have a child now?

It depends.  What is different?  Why did you break up?

Quoting JenniferAndAva:“ If you had been in a relationship with someone whom you loved dearly years ago.. and he came back into ... [snip!] ... than they were before.. would you think about it?? of course, husbands and real life asside. but hypothetically speaking.”

Yep, but I hold on to things too long I think...I'm emotionally dramatic...I'd probably go into thinking it would be beautiful and everything I'd hoped for and dreamed of, and it would probably suck and I'd end up breaking up with him...

Quoting Karen Zuniga♥[06]:“ It depends what's different now besides that you have a child now?”

no.

like life changes, people grow up..
circumstances change..

Quoting Excited to have 2!!:“ Yep, but I hold on to things too long I think...I'm emotionally dramatic...I'd probably go into thinking ... [snip!] ... be beautiful and everything I'd hoped for and dreamed of, and it would probably suck and I'd end up breaking up with him...”

yeah thats always a problem, plus its easy to forget the bad things!

I have kind of a strange situation, but my divorce from my first love was very tragic. If for some reason we met later in life, I can say I would seriously consider it. I still love him, yeah I am pathetic I know.
 

Quoting JenniferAndAva:“ yeah thats always a problem, plus its easy to forget the bad things!”

Ya it is...I seriously can't remember any bad things about "the ex." Just all the fun we had together...but things have totally changed and I don't think I will ever be able to have that much fun in a relationship again...2 kids, tons of responsibility...but I hang on to those memories like there's no tomorrow.

HELLLLL no.

i agree..things end for a reason.  & usually the only reason to take an ex back is out of desperation. IMO

Quoting Excited to have 2!!:“ Ya it is...I seriously can't remember any bad things about "the ex." Just all the fun we had together...but ... [snip!] ... much fun in a relationship again...2 kids, tons of responsibility...but I hang on to those memories like there's no tomorrow.”

i hear ya

ot, but your band is great!
i like it.
you sound fabulous!

Quoting Kelli Jo (AB-) CCL!:“ I have kind of a strange situation, but my divorce from my first love was very tragic. If for some reason ... [snip!] ... for some reason we met later in life, I can say I would seriously consider it. I still love him, yeah I am pathetic I know.  ”

havent laughed this hard in awhile...thank u!

I have and I always found that it was the same issues all over again. People do not really change most of the time. (Especially if you are lonely) you only remember the good times and forget the bad until they start to come back again.

Quoting hisbabimama12:“ havent laughed this hard in awhile...thank u!”

You know what? What I said to you was a fucking joke. Not even a harsh one at that. You were the one that said if I dont have anything nice to say not to speak. You are a fucking psychopath.

Quoting JenniferAndAva:“ i hear ya ot, but your band is great! i like it. you sound fabulous!”

Thank you so much!

Quoting Monica♥sMcKenzie:“ I have and I always found that it was the same issues all over again. People do not really change most ... [snip!] ... time. (Especially if you are lonely) you only remember the good times and forget the bad until they start to come back again.”

yeah totally.
i think i can agree.