Quoting tralinda:“ My original due date was May 19, but the first scan put me at May 17, and the second one put me at May ... [snip!] ... so I'm feeling the desire and hope to have kids, but am worried about so many factors and my previous bad experience.)”
Good Luck hun, keep faith! At 17 I was told if I wanted kids try then, otherwise chances got smaller with every passing year. I had SEVERAL female problems. So DH & I said we just won't use protection or any BC method of any sort. 7 years passed and nothing happened. So we were sure I was 'broke'. We both wanted kids but neither of us wanted to say anything b/c of the circumstances. We moved 3 hours away from where we had always lived & grew up , and with in 2 months we got pregnant out of no where. I think it was we stopped thinking about it, got away from all the stress, and felt like we had a new beginning. I had a m/c around 8-10 weeks, it took a month to pass everything. We got married and started trying right away, the 1st month I didn't O, the 2nd month we conceived. This time we had a healthy baby in the long run. I was pg w/ twins, VTS occured around week 9, the other baby girl was born on 2-2-08. We started TTC, when our daughter turned 6 months, and conceived almost right away. Due in late May/Early June. Newho, just relax, so many people had told me that before and I know its easier said than done, but I swear by it. The more relaxed I stay in my pregnancies the better they turn out. Good Luck hun!