Husband.....problems....

Ok I have been with him since I was 15 and he was 17 we got married when I was 18 and he was 20. So we have been together for four years in all...married one.

Anyway....we have broken up plenty of times while we was "going out" but after we got married things was better.....I thought. Everytime we broke up while dating he always had another girl just there....yeah that upset me. Well couple days ago his cell phone breaks so I give him mine to use since I don't have to go anywhere and stuff. Well last night he calls to tell me he is on his way home from work so I start cooking and I get everything done and get it on the table then he calls and tells me he stopped at a friends house to help fix something and now he was heading home....I was upset because Im pregnant and I want to eat LOL Then when he gets home we eat and then he comes and gets online and I look at my cell to see if anyone had called for me like my Dr or whatever and then I see a number that I have seen before like when we was dating and I asked him whos number it was and he was like I don't know. I said well you talked to this person for over 3 minutes and you dont know who it is.....he said no. I said fine I'll call it...then he was like "No its a girls number" It was the number to a girl that he has had sex with in the past while we was dating and Im upset because he lied to me and he says nothing is going on and crap he said if something was going on he would have deleted the number. He said he called her because him ans a co worker went to lunch and they noticed she wasnt at her job so he called to see where she was..... it sounds like something is going on right?? I don't know.... any advice on what to do or say or SOMETHING. lol

Quoting Bama_Sweetheart:“ Ok I have been with him since I was 15 and he was 17 we got married when I was 18 and he was 20. So we ... [snip!] ... she was..... it sounds like something is going on right?? I don't know.... any advice on what to do or say or SOMETHING. lol”

I would still call her!

regardless, why would he call to see why she wasn't at work, that's a stupid excuse.

Quoting **NiKOLE** [WAC/PTC]:“ I would still call her!”

I agree. I'd call her and find out whats really going on

Quoting Bama_Sweetheart:“ Ok I have been with him since I was 15 and he was 17 we got married when I was 18 and he was 20. So we ... [snip!] ... she was..... it sounds like something is going on right?? I don't know.... any advice on what to do or say or SOMETHING. lol”

Personally I think he's full of it...He must have forgot to delete it...Call the girl yourself when he's gone lol but that may start trouble.

Quoting angel mommy:“ regardless, why would he call to see why she wasn't at work, that's a stupid excuse.”

Tell me about it!!

Quoting Baby girl on the way!!:“ I agree. I'd call her and find out whats really going on”

She knows me and she wont talk to me and always hangs up. Well she did when my husband and I was just dating.

Call her! Can you check his phone records? I would! I'd be pissed and yes it does sound like somethings going on!

Quoting **NiKOLE** [WAC/PTC]:“ I would still call her!”

I agree too, you should call the number! If he is lying you'll find out real quick.

Quoting Mama'sBabyBoy:“ Personally I think he's full of it...He must have forgot to delete it...Call the girl yourself when he's gone lol but that may start trouble.”

I would love to call her and see why they was talking but they both lie to me. Im just tired of it. He tells me that he loves me and the baby and don't want to do anything to hurt us.....Im starting to think its crap.

Quoting Bama_Sweetheart:“ She knows me and she wont talk to me and always hangs up. Well she did when my husband and I was just dating.”

She sounds like a biotch

Quoting Bama_Sweetheart:“ She knows me and she wont talk to me and always hangs up. Well she did when my husband and I was just dating.”

well, if she wont talk to you then, thats a red flag that something is going on! If their is nothing going on then she would talk to you!

Quoting angel mommy:“ regardless, why would he call to see why she wasn't at work, that's a stupid excuse.”

I agree, it's not his problem! What a DOG 

Quoting younggrasshper:“ Call her! Can you check his phone records? I would! I'd be pissed and yes it does sound like somethings going on!”

I had seen some text on HIS cell to a girl that works with him that said " I missed you" and when I asked his about it he said he was just messin with her to piss her off. But now he is calling bitches from MY cell phone. How stupid can you be tho.

Quoting Bama_Sweetheart:“ She knows me and she wont talk to me and always hangs up. Well she did when my husband and I was just dating.”

Well it seems like somethings up then. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. Figure out if you want to keep living like that or not then let him know how its going to be