oh no he didnt

so I'm laying here playing around online trying to be quiet cause the hubby is sleeping and I hear him say go away and so I ask him who and he says this crazy girl and I say what why do you want he to go away and he says cause she stares so I go is she cute and he tells me yess and I say then why do you want her to go away and he said I told her I'm married and so I asked him why she's crazy and he says cause when we have sex she goes crazy I was like WTF I woke him up and was like u better watch what ur saying in your sleep and he asked why I told him and then he said no I said she's one of those girls who u have sex with shell go crazy and I was like no you didn't why didn't you tell me and he said its not something he needs to tell me about he handeled it and she walks by his work everyday and flirts I was like yes you need to tell me about some girl you thinks cute and thougt about sex with. he tells me its 4am ong rolls over and pretends to go to sleep I smaked his side and walked out. atlest I know hell rat himself out

oh! I'd be pissed!  

      

I'd be so pissed off. He wouldn't have been goin back to sleep!

On the plus side, he was telling her to go away.

that makes me want to go try that with my guy right now... just for shits and giggles.

but ya, i'd be pissed too. i'd look into it... but then again, i'm super hormonal and apparently that causes me to be very jealous... something i've always been proud of NOT being.

yeah I'm pissed but he said he told her he's married and to go away but the jelious part of me hates he said she's cute and thought about sex and the fact he never told me shoot we went to walmart lastnight and my ex neghbor said hi and he goes did u fuck him? I'm not sure he's got work stuff to do maybe ill pick that fight when he gets home. I'm debateing about getting up and makeing him breakfast now. he always talks in his sleep its how I get stuff outta him he starts mumbleing and I ask him what was that and hell repeat it and I go from there lol I knew 1 day I'd hear something to make me mad

Okay, seriously? First off, you hit him?! Out of line, IMO.

Secondly, sure, he might think she's cute, and the thought of sex may have even crossed his mind, but he's a MAN. They have a difficult time separating a woman's attractiveness from sex. Has he had sex with her? No. Did he tell her he's married? Yes. All good signs from where I stand.

Calm down and retract those claws.  

Quoting xamandica42o143x:“ so I'm laying here playing around online trying to be quiet cause the hubby is sleeping and I hear him ... [snip!] ... me its 4am ong rolls over and pretends to go to sleep I smaked his side and walked out. atlest I know hell rat himself out”

It's a dream, relax. Jealousy arises from self-esteem and trust issues. Maybe you should work on that a little bit. Men like confidence in a woman. If you think your husband would have the audacity to cheat on you, then there's no reason you two should be together.

Besides, like Spell Checker said, he is a MAN and men are visual creatures. They think about sex 75% of the day. As long as he's not acting out his thoughts, then there should be no need for concern.

Quoting Nicola~ 4w3d left! [HBC]:“ It's a dream, relax. Jealousy arises from self-esteem and trust issues. Maybe you should work on that ... [snip!] ... They think about sex 75% of the day. As long as he's not acting out his thoughts, then there should be no need for concern.”

I'm glad to see someone else is a rational thinker.  

actuly I was more shocked and thought it was funny and thought I'd share. I smaked him on the but in a jokeing way. yeah I'm glad he didn't sleep with her but I am upseat he didn't tell me some crazy chick was following him around being my husban or not I like to know stuff like that when it involes someone I love. and I think following some guy around the mall and stareing at him at work does qualify as crazy. I was just taken aback hearing my husban dream of another girl yes men do it I dream of other men but I don't share it with him because frankly you don't want to think of you love one with someone other then you. yes feelings got hurt but did I pick a fight over it ? no. actully he got up and I made and had a great breakfast and I teased him about it. I know he's not willing to jepordize his family for a quick fix I just found it ammuseing and thought I'd share

Quoting xamandica42o143x:“ actuly I was more shocked and thought it was funny and thought I'd share. I smaked him on the but in ... [snip!] ... him about it. I know he's not willing to jepordize his family for a quick fix I just found it ammuseing and thought I'd share”

Maybe so, but you posted before, "Yeah, I'm pissed." Meaning it wasn't just an amusing story.

And yes, the other girl probably is crazy, but he's not acting on it, so I wouldn't worry about it. At all.

yeah at that second in time yeah I was but as the saying goes pick your battles wisely and I'm not picking a fight over a rage of pregnacy hormones

He thought about sleeping with her! That's not a good sign!