re: Should I, Or Shouldn't I?

Quoting Mrs.Dani IS A MOM!:“ lol. Nope. What is it, though?? Where I live it's more like Alabama, even though we're an hour away from ... [snip!] ... still places where blacks get hung, it's realllly bad. That's why my husband and I want to get out of here. (He's puerto Rican)”

WTF? That's crazy! I had no clue places were still like that until my grandma went to some small town in Georgia. Everywhere she went, she got terrible looks from people.

Quoting Mrs.Dani IS A MOM!:“ lol. Nope. What is it, though?? Where I live it's more like Alabama, even though we're an hour away from ... [snip!] ... still places where blacks get hung, it's realllly bad. That's why my husband and I want to get out of here. (He's puerto Rican)”

Really? I've been up near Tallahassee and up there it never seemed that bad-- and I'm from Virginia and there are a ton of hispanic people there now. There weren't when I lived there.

Anyways-- this definition in urban dictionary says Mexican people-- but I've heard it used to Puerto Ricans... Cubans... Colombians... etc.


wetback

Also wet back. A slang term for those of Mexican heritage, especially illegal aliens. This slur stems from the fact that illegal Mexicans usually swim rivers to cross into other countries, hence the term wet back.

Quoting ZayZay's Mama:“ Ooh have you picked out a name yet?”

Nope! I keep picking names, and then deciding I don't like them a week later.

I don't get how I'm supposed to name her without knowing what she is like.

Quoting Beth!:“ Nope! I keep picking names, and then deciding I don't like them a week later. I don't get how I'm supposed to name her without knowing what she is like.”

Yeah I understand that. Maybe you should pick out a few. When she's born you'll know right away which one suits her.

Quoting ZayZay's Mama:“ Yeah I understand that. Maybe you should pick out a few. When she's born you'll know right away which one suits her.”

Yeah... I'm throwing a few around.

Quoting Piper Poofypants:“ no way! he's already getting daddy's last name. A baby deserves his/her own name!”

GOOD POINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tell him you're going to name it what ever you want,
unless he gets serious about picking a name that's not his own.

Quoting Piper Poofypants:“ no way! he's already getting daddy's last name. A baby deserves his/her own name!”

 

i def. think you should name the baby something else....or make it the middle name just to compromise...and yes it is very boring to continue going on with one name....then others compare ur child to dad and grandpop and great grandpop..lol

Quoting My Lovely Baby Bump:“ so me and my bf have been having this ongoing debate about wat to name the baby if it's a boy. (i'm not ... [snip!] ... it and just name him after his dad?? (because of this, I'm hoping it's a girl so that we dont have to keep arguing about it)”

No I think you should name him wut you both really decide on dnt give in on something u will not be happy with. And yeah the baby is gonna get his last name anyways. You could always put the daddys name in the middle thats wut did with my first born.

Quoting Kameron's Mommy n Dec.:“ i def. think you should name the baby something else....or make it the middle name just to compromise...and ... [snip!] ... is very boring to continue going on with one name....then others compare ur child to dad and grandpop and great grandpop..lol”

I was under the impression that your son will get compared to his dad, and grandfather pretty much no matter what lol

Quoting My Lovely Baby Bump:“ so me and my bf have been having this ongoing debate about wat to name the baby if it's a boy. (i'm not ... [snip!] ... it and just name him after his dad?? (because of this, I'm hoping it's a girl so that we dont have to keep arguing about it)”

i agree...i hate juniors, and II's and III's and.......! maybe you could use part of daddy's name as the middle name and something different for the first name...that way you both get a little of what you want for your baby's name. ???