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What should I do?

posted 30th Aug
I'll give a little background info first. A really good friend of mine just recently broke up with her boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. He left her for a younger girl who has a baby that she never takes care of. My friend is constantly talking bad about all of her "best" friends. Which makes me wonder if she talks bad about me. But anyway, first issue is she used to be really good friends with this girl (i'll call her girl A, since I don't want to use names). Girl A has a baby with Guy A. They were together for over 3 years but recently broke up. Well my friend and Girl A haven't really hung out lately. No reason in particular, they just havent. Well my friend ended up hooking up with Guy A behind Girl A's back. Just recently, Girl A sent my friend a message saying thanks for always being there for me and what not. And saying that no matter what, she'll always be her best friend. Well my friend just laughed and said fuck that shit and sent Guy A a picture of her boobs and is still continuing to talk to him. Which I thought was fucked up. Regardless of their situation. And she tells me about it and laughs about it and expects me to kinda laugh right along. I just keep my mouth shut though.
Well now today she tells me to look at this guys myspace (Guy B), because she had sex with him a couple days ago. So I look and he has pictures of him and his girlfriend (Girl B)all over his page.And Girl Bis another friend of mine. Not a good friend, but we've talked on occasion. So I asked my friend if he had a girlfriend and she said I dont know he said he just hasn't changed his page. but then she goes on to say that she doesn't really care anyway because it would be his mistake and he was really hot. And she is again laughing about it and expecting me to like praise her for it.
So my question is, should I say anything to Girl B or should I just stay out of it? I have been cheated on and I know that I would want to know. They tell eachother they love eachother and I know her heart's in it. I wouldn't say my friend's name, but I think Girl B should know.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
posted 30th Aug
Quoting So unbelievably in love:“ I'll give a little background info first. A really good friend of mine just recently broke up with her ... [snip!] ... eachother they love eachother and I know her heart's in it. I wouldn't say my friend's name, but I think Girl B should know.”


HELL YES I would tell them! Wouldn't you want to know you were being cheated on and there was a chance your partner could bring something nasty back home? I had a friend like this and I ended our friendship and I told on her. I got closer with my other friends and they thanked me for being honest. Don't be suprised if they don't want to listen to you and ignore it, some people are like that.

But I would tell. It's just as wrong to sit and watch. All my friends knew my ex was cheating on me and didn't say anything. They were there when he did. Now personally I don't want to go around those people. I just want to ask them why they stood there and didn't have the balls to say anything to me. I didn't want to find out my ex was sleeping around without protection and that my BEST friends knew and didn't want to say anything. And I didn't want to think that my BD should be that immature. First thing I did was to get tested.

But once again that's my opinion.
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I have 1 child & live in Kingsport, Tennessee
posted 30th Aug
Quoting naofox:“ HELL YES I would tell them! Wouldn't you want to know you were being cheated on and there was a chance ... [snip!] ... want to think that my BD should be that immature. First thing I did was to get tested. But once again that's my opinion.”
I DEFINETELY want to say something. I just wanted to get opinions first and make sure i wasn't overstepping my boundaries. I think it's all really fucked up and it just makes me wonder if I can trust her.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
posted 30th Aug
Quoting So unbelievably in love:“ I DEFINETELY want to say something. I just wanted to get opinions first and make sure i wasn't overstepping ... [snip!] ... sure i wasn't overstepping my boundaries. I think it's all really fucked up and it just makes me wonder if I can trust her.”
No, definately. If she is like that with them, imagine what she says or does behind your back? She isn't trustworthy and not worth the effort of friendship.
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I have 1 child & live in Kingsport, Tennessee
posted 30th Aug
Quoting naofox:“ No, definately. If she is like that with them, imagine what she says or does behind your back? She isn't trustworthy and not worth the effort of friendship.”

I know. I've always wondered. Someone had told another one of our good friends that this girl was talking bad about her behind her back. My friend was venting to me about it, saying she doesn't know why anyone would say that because she had NEVER talked bad about thsi girl. When in fact, she was constantly bad talking her in front of me. She just moved to another city so it may be the right time to cut her off
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
posted 30th Aug
Quoting So unbelievably in love:“ I know. I've always wondered. Someone had told another one of our good friends that this girl was talking ... [snip!] ... she was constantly bad talking her in front of me. She just moved to another city so it may be the right time to cut her off”

Hell ya, go for it! Good luck to you because you never know how she'll react when everyone finds out.
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I have 1 child & live in Kingsport, Tennessee
posted 30th Aug
Quoting naofox:“ Hell ya, go for it! Good luck to you because you never know how she'll react when everyone finds out.”

I know I'm dreading that! I don't want to be the bitch that's not being a true friend to her..but at the same time, I think it's completely messed up and the other girl deserves to know
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
posted 30th Aug
Quoting So unbelievably in love:“ I know I'm dreading that! I don't want to be the bitch that's not being a true friend to her..but at the same time, I think it's completely messed up and the other girl deserves to know”

tell her anonymously. sp? Or just say "please don't bring my name up." in a weird twist a fate, the girl I told on straightened up and thanked me. said she got tired of lying all the time.
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I have 1 child & live in Kingsport, Tennessee
posted 30th Aug
I'll tell her. =D
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 30th Aug
Quoting naofox:“ tell her anonymously. sp? Or just say "please don't bring my name up." in a weird twist a fate, the girl I told on straightened up and thanked me. said she got tired of lying all the time.”

im the only one that knows haha
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
posted 30th Aug
Quoting _Prophet Listerfiend_:“ I'll tell her. =D”

haha ok!
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
posted 30th Aug
Quoting So unbelievably in love:“ haha ok!”

 
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 30th Aug
Ugh I just talked to my fiance and told him I think I'm going to tell the girl..but not say who it was with..and he told me that was fucked up cuz this other girl is supposed tobe my best friend.

this is coming from a guy who cheated on ME and got another girl pregnant a year and a half ago though. and got mad when i ended up finding out in january..
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
posted 30th Aug
Quoting So unbelievably in love:“ Ugh I just talked to my fiance and told him I think I'm going to tell the girl..but not say who it was ... [snip!] ... cheated on ME and got another girl pregnant a year and a half ago though. and got mad when i ended up finding out in january..”
Well now you know why he thinks it's fucked up.No one wants to be in that position of being discovered as a liar.
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I have 1 child & live in Kingsport, Tennessee
posted 30th Aug
Quoting naofox:“ Well now you know why he thinks it's fucked up.No one wants to be in that position of being discovered as a liar.”

I know. ugh he put a damper on my mood! haha he interrupted me before i even finished talking and i told him i didnt care if she was my best friend. i wasnt going to say names but the other girl deserves to know. he started yelling and said i dont want to fucking fight over this shit so i hung up on him. he texted me saying dont call me back and i said dont worry i wont  
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Nevada
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