Fantasy....

Ok, I personally am not one to lust over a fantasy man. I don't need muscles, or calender looksor a perfect body. I am the most sexually attracted to men that are my type, or men that I am in love with. Most notably, my BF. He isnt a "fantasy" man, he has a belly, and he is hairy, but he is my fantasy because I am in love with him.  

I know alot of women can relate with me, but it seems men are the exact opposite. I have been thinking about this alot ever since I came across my BF's porno mag stash. The girls in his magazines were average plus size, I would say maybe between a size 14-18. They had HUGE boobs. Not fake boobs, but natural gigantic saggy boobs.

I talked to him about it and he said that I was his ultimate fantasy, and the magazines just help him get off faster if I am not in the mood. If he is randy and I am not, he will lay in bed all night not being able to sleep unless it goes away. He said he would get rid of the magazines, because he would rather have me anyday. Ok, so I am not mad at him. I just get cofused. I wear a DD (since getting pregnant) , and I am an average build. I am not skinny but I am not a plus size, I guess Iam somewhere in between.

I guess what I am getting at isI can't comprehend how a man can be totally in love with his wife or girlfriend, but lust after women that are the exact opposite. Doesnt that kind of contradict the things they find attractive in us? It kind of hurts my feelings that I am his real life love, but his fantasy chick is the exact opposite of me. It makes me feel insecure in the confidence I have that I am everything he would ever want. Point blank he has a large boob fetish and I feel creeped out about it.

Does anyone else ever ponder this?

My fiance hasn't looked at porn since we have been together (2 years on Wed  ). He said he has no reason to anymore. Also, during nudity in movies...he will look at me instead, haha. and his friends told me once that when they hang out...he NEVER looks at any other girl. That he only sees me, aw.

Actually, yeah. I was briefly (for a little over two years) married. I'm always dying and cutting my hair just for a change of pace, whatever. Well, one day I decided to dye my hair red, but when I brought it up with him, he said, "Oh, no. Don't dye your hair red - I like your natural color, so why not just go back to that?" So I did, after feeling all special and getting warm fuzzies. A few weeks later, I find his porn while cleaning the storage room. And guess what? All freaking redheads. I spent a long time pondering that one...lol.
And my SO, I know he looks at porn every now and then, but it doesn't bother me. He doesn't really seem to have a "type" and since I've been pregnant he's either been really sneaky or hasn't been looking at all.

Oh, dear god. Maybe he has a pregnant woman fetish!  

Quoting Sam♥:“ My fiance hasn't looked at porn since we have been together (2 years on Wed  ). He said he has no reason ... [snip!] ... haha. and his friends told me once that when they hang out...he NEVER looks at any other girl. That he only sees me, aw.”

Arent you special? lol You are lucky!
My BF isnt a big porn guy either. He mostly has them in his old room at his parents. When we were just "friends" I was a really mean tease. So, I guess he needed it. I have only seen him with a magazine maybe twice in the last year.

This reminds me of a conversation me and my hubby had yesterday. He was talking about how he used to think Lindsay Lohan was cute until she got really skinny. So I decided to play around with him and twist his words a bit.. (something I find funny, he knows I am joking around) Anyway, I said "So you don't like skinny girls? Does that mean I am fat?!" He laughed and said "Nooo you're not skinny but your not fat.. you're in the middle. You're thick."

I got kind of insulted.. he could have said something better like voluptuous. I can totally relate to what you said about your man being your "fantasy" man because your in love with him. I am not too sure why men lust over women that are the exact opposite, they don't make sense.

Quoting Sam♥:“ My fiance hasn't looked at porn since we have been together (2 years on Wed  ). He said he has no reason ... [snip!] ... haha. and his friends told me once that when they hang out...he NEVER looks at any other girl. That he only sees me, aw.”

No offense or anything, but that just not seem realistic, ALL men look at other women it is natural... Like if a really pretty girl walks into a room dont you ever catch yourself looking and thinking I wish that I could look more like that or something. Men are thge same way they look and like what they see.

Quoting Kelli Jo (AB-) CCL!:“ Ok, I personally am not one to lust over a fantasy man. I don't need muscles, or calender looksor a perfect ... [snip!] ... would ever want. Point blank he has a large boob fetish and I feel creeped out about it. Does anyone else ever ponder this?”

Sorry to be blunt like this:
But, in my world, you have big boobs!
Think of all the other porno crap he could look at!

Atleast, he's not wacking off over Paris Hilton look alikes!

Quoting Mommy♥Eli:“ This reminds me of a conversation me and my hubby had yesterday. He was talking about how he used to ... [snip!] ... because your in love with him. I am not too sure why men lust over women that are the exact opposite, they don't make sense.”

Wow. Open mouth, insert foot.  

Quoting jd's mommy:“ No offense or anything, but that just not seem realistic, ALL men look at other women it is natural... ... [snip!] ... and thinking I wish that I could look more like that or something. Men are thge same way they look and like what they see.”

Actually, for some men it is realistic. Its not that they can't appreciate a pretty girl/ attractive woman when they see her. Its just that they don't look at porn.
This is probably stuff I shouldn't know, but my dad hasn't looked at porn in 25 years, ever since he met my mother. Does that mean he doesn't look at a woman and say, Wow! She is really good-looking!"? No. Of course he does. But you won't catch him with a porno either.

Quoting MagischMama:“ Wow. Open mouth, insert foot.  ”

Lol, the funny thing was he seriously didn't think he said anything wrong. I said.. Thick? Really? He is a goof.

Quoting MagischMama:“ Actually, for some men it is realistic. Its not that they can't appreciate a pretty girl/ attractive ... [snip!] ... look at a woman and say, Wow! She is really good-looking!"? No. Of course he does. But you won't catch him with a porno either.”

No I was not refering to porn, I was referring to the previous post that I quoted. Of course not all me look at porn but do you really think that a man will never look at another girl?

Quoting jd's mommy:“ No I was not refering to porn, I was referring to the previous post that I quoted. Of course not all me look at porn but do you really think that a man will never look at another girl?”

No, but I think she meant more that he doens't look at them in a "I would totally tap that" sort of way. Its different to look at an attractive person and appreciate that quality and then to look at them in a lustful way. Don't you agree?

Quoting Mommy♥Eli:“ Lol, the funny thing was he seriously didn't think he said anything wrong. I said.. Thick? Really? He is a goof.”

lol. Guys are so funny sometimes - things we think should be so obvious just fly right over their heads.

Quoting MagischMama:“ No, but I think she meant more that he doens't look at them in a "I would totally tap that" sort of way. ... [snip!] ... to look at an attractive person and appreciate that quality and then to look at them in a lustful way. Don't you agree?”

Ys I agree, but if you read the post that I quoted that was not what was coming thru, just my humble opinioin anyways.

Ladies lets not forget!
His mags had PREGNANT chicks in it too!
Awesome eh?