Hubby acting distant?

My little boy is 2 weeks old today and ever since he's been born my husband has been acting so distant. Like he don't want anything to do with me. Don't get me wrong, he's great with Kaedyn but when it comes to me & him time, there is none, not even a couple minutes while the baby is asleep. At night when we lay down I have to literally ask him to touch me. We arent able to have sex yet but I still feel like he could try and at least kiss me.. instead he just wants to watch t.v. & then I laid down really close to him and laid Kaedyn on the other side of me and he's like can you scoot over? It made me feel disguisting..like he has no attraction to me anymore. Have any of you ladies gone/going thru this and what did you do? I want to be close to him again, I feel like he doesnt even talk to me very much anymore but I dont know what to do.   

I think its just a phase that he's going through, every guy is like that and sometimes it scares me, i'm sure he'll turn back to himself, maybe having the baby is making him feel off a little or even scared i think its normal.

Did he watch you give birth?

Quoting Mommy & Wifey:“ My little boy is 2 weeks old today and ever since he's been born my husband has been acting so distant. ... [snip!] ... do? I want to be close to him again, I feel like he doesnt even talk to me very much anymore but I dont know what to do.   ”

maybe he just doesnt want to get that close to you cuz itll turn him on? and he knows he cant get any?

Have you talked to him about it?

Quoting Who?:“ Did he watch you give birth?”

Yeah he watched from the head of the bed and I even asked him if seeing that made him think I was gross and he swears it didn't but idk... he even told me the comment the other night that even though we cant have sex, he hasnt even wanted it or (TMI) had a hard on all week... 

As if I already dont feel gross enough...

My bf said he wouldnt go with me when I had the baby, because If he saw what came out of my vagina and how big that hole opens. (those were his words). he would feel disgusted and wouldnt touch me nor even sleep with me in the same bed for atleast 3 months. So maybe that could be it. Or just him knowing that the first 6 weeks he can't do anything and prefers not to get all excited about it if he wont be able to make love.

Quoting .: La Gata :. 2 days left:“ My bf said he wouldnt go with me when I had the baby, because If he saw what came out of my vagina and ... [snip!] ... that the first 6 weeks he can't do anything and prefers not to get all excited about it if he wont be able to make love.”

I think the part that freaked him out the most was all the blood that came out afterwards. Because he was like there was so much blood, she puta bucket under you and you filled it up with blood and then she was putting gauze in there and pulling them out soaked in bloodfor like 15 mins...

Quoting .: La Gata :. 2 days left:“ My bf said he wouldnt go with me when I had the baby, because If he saw what came out of my vagina and ... [snip!] ... that the first 6 weeks he can't do anything and prefers not to get all excited about it if he wont be able to make love.”

Wow he sounds real mature. I'd smack the shit out of my bf if he said he didn't want to watch his son being born because of how big my vagina might get.

When mine watched my son be born he was afraid he would hurt me afterwards, so he wanted to wait for a long time afterwards to do anything. He was still affectionate but afraid to give big hugs, or have sex. Even after the dr's ok he was hesitant.

Quoting Who?:“ When mine watched my son be born he was afraid he would hurt me afterwards, so he wanted to wait for ... [snip!] ... to do anything. He was still affectionate but afraid to give big hugs, or have sex. Even after the dr's ok he was hesitant.”

Well that does make sense because I asked him to rub my inner theigh because those muscles are sOO sore and he was all rubbing real low and I'm like no rub higher and hes like I dont want to accidently rip out your stitches or something.. I'm like wtf they dont hang down the side my leg .. and he said he just didnt want to mess with anything down there and hurt it