Single Moms With Assholes Dads?

Quoting ambSzx319:“ I have a pretty bad story about what happen since, I had my son between me and my ex boyfriend.. More ... [snip!] ... ex boyfriend.. More like since I got pregant.. and maybe someone else's storys might make me feel better, knowing im not alone.”

Quoting Samantha10.31.08:“ My story of what's happened since I found out I was pregnant and most of the crap I've had to deal with from him is in my page...at least the jist of it.”

Quoting Rowan's Momma:“ Your page looks pretty good to me   Anyway, Rowan's father is lazy and can't do shit for her. He's too ... [snip!] ... what he wants whenever he wants...we broke up yesterday morning and I'm gonna drop the paperwork in his lap for child support.”

Quoting Samantha10.31.08:“ He broke up with me and I didn't see it coming. And ever since then he's been a complete ass. He won't ... [snip!] ... done a single thing to show that he meant it. And he's been a dick to me when I try and talk to him about the smallest thing.”

Quoting Rowan's Momma:“ I'm sorry hun   men are useless and irresponsible....I still ponder their existance to this very day.”

Well.. we have known each other for atleast, 5 years.. dated when we were younger, and time past forgot about each other, and some how ended up together.. he was perfect at first, temper started to get out of control. and the controling started but it was simple. enough that you thought he just cared...

it all got worse in time. I found out i was pregant he begged me to keep the baby and i did so, i couldn't do that anyway but i wont tell u the thought of an abortion ddint cross my mind, knowing somehow i'd be doing it alone i dont know why he started straighting up but for some reason i knew..

and i moved out with him, mind you i was 17 at the tme.. I had a job and worked since I was 15.. He had a job also.. He wasn't good with money mangament, we had nothing a bed, a dresser and thats about it.

He wasn't paying the bills with anything even though he told me it was all taken care of, at this point he had a just gotten thru a drug charge that happened previous of us getting together. And his weed habit got out of control mind you i dont smoke or drink never really have.

but as my pregancy went on, he started yelling at me more, making me feel horrible about myself, my life, my looks my everything.

Turned into fist fighting, pushing me leaving me places crying on the street... So I moved home.. We started to fix things and I moved back yet again didn't go so well my love for him over comes all of what I know is right..

He disapeared for about 4 months.. started comming back around and we tried again I had already moved on my own, and had everything I needed full apartment 2 bed rooms had everything ready for the baby...

I went into the hospital he was there but basically asleep while I was in labor.. and that pushed my buttons, started a fight because I asked him to get me an ice pack the next moring after my birth...

Came home with me and seemed like it was ok. Fights lead to more and more fights, and the hitting and screaming got worse.. He than dispeared for another month... or so, came back tried to fix everything .. again just doesn't care enough..

he almost killed me about a month ago, his words ive never heard anyone say the things this man's said to me if you only could of seen it.. I've had things thrown at me, thrown into things. and just bruises and for smeone reason i still dont let go..

But he choked me to the point i passed out laying on my floor and couldln't move for almost a minute...

He than came back trying to talk the next day and I for some reason left it go because I'm dumb and think I need him...

He doesn't take care of this child he doesn't do anything other than play games with me.. he wants everything under his terms no understanding that we have a child that needs taken care of, bills need paid..

hes basically a bum and uses everything for what they have.. and i am a mess at this point doing this alone between work, my son, and really not having any friends no one wants to deal with a girl wtih a child.

and I havent spoke to him in almost a month.. He'll IM me when I'm at work twice, and weed and his friends and drinking partying are more important.. he can't hold a job cant help anyone and im just i dont know...

it does't seem as bad because I dont want to make him a big asshole but its a lot of head games a lot of hurt...