So Now What?

So my guy.
Has been great ever since my first pregnancy.
He was upset about the miscarriage
Tried to get me pregnant again.
Succeeded.
Went out baby shopping yesterday.

And tonight tells me this is def not what he wants.
that he wants to be with me, and loves me, but doesnt want this baby...

So Now What?

wow .. tell him its a little to late for that!!

Tell him to get screwed and he should have thought of that before.

Maybe he is just a little scared...exspecially with having a miscarriage...I would talk to him more about it

kinda late now, isnt' it?

if he wants to be with you he'll have to be with the baby too. maybe buying things made it a little more real for him and he got scared. my hubby was scared at first, he always wanted the baby, but he was scared at first.

Well, its a little late. Yall made a decision to get pregnant. You are. So there ya go...sooooo whats the question???

Quoting mommymack4707:“ wow .. tell him its a little to late for that!!”

yep, its too late now, time to suck it up and take it like a man.

Quoting Merk:“ So my guy. Has been great ever since my first pregnancy. He was upset about the miscarriage Tried to ... [snip!] ... tells me this is def not what he wants. that he wants to be with me, and loves me, but doesnt want this baby... So Now What?”

How far along are you?

Quoting Heidi May:“ How far along are you?”

not far at all. 4 and a half weeks.

tough titty...?

You probrably should have made sure it was what he wanted, um previous to planning a pregnancy with him.

There's no question here for us, if it's him or the baby then that's a decision you have to make, and the opinions of a bunch of world wide strangers aren't going to sway you in the least.

So which is it abortion or so clearly loving boyfriend?

Quoting Heidi May:“ How far along are you?”

Drrr..I"m retarded, I see your due date now. YEAH, a little late to be deciding that. Unless of course you are open for adoption. There are many many couples that would LOVE to be expecting a baby. If your heart is already in this and you want this baby then tell him that he needs to just relax and accept it, b/c it's happening.

Quoting Amanda & Princess ♥:“ You probrably should have made sure it was what he wanted, um previous to planning a pregnancy with him. ... [snip!] ... bunch of world wide strangers aren't going to sway you in the least. So which is it abortion or so clearly loving boyfriend?”

oh god no, im not thinking about an abortion, its not even what hes asking.

he just realized now that he didnt want it.
and i made sure we talked about it 7464543456 times before we got preggo and he was all about it

he doesnt want to break up
and hes gonna do what hes gotta do i guess but he just doesnt want too.

Quoting Amanda & Princess ♥:“ You probrably should have made sure it was what he wanted, um previous to planning a pregnancy with him. ... [snip!] ... bunch of world wide strangers aren't going to sway you in the least. So which is it abortion or so clearly loving boyfriend?”

I agree