So tired of my sister [[vent-long!]]

So it seems like everywhere I go someone is trying to either make me feel bad about having or baby or just doesn't like the fact that I am. I thought at least my family would back me up and because excited with and for me. Everybody is excited about Ashlyn except for my sister. See I think that she is jealous because she's used to being the baby and getting ALL of the attention. Now that I'm pregnant the baby does [[I don't even get the attention..my mom greets my belly before me]] Anyways my mom, sister and I went out this morning...well all morning she was huffing and puffing..especially when we went to Wal-Mart and looked at all the little girl clothes [[we haven't been out looking for clothes since we found out I'm having a girl]] she walked out of the department and waited by the candles..she just looked mad the entire time. I wasn't trying to let her ruin my mood but it was really hard because we've always been EXTREMELY close. Anyways we came home and I went straight to bed because I didn't feel good and I wanted to catch a nap before I went to work. Well apprently my mom was telling someone about Ashlyn and my sister walked into the living room and told my brother "I am so f*cking tired of hearing about this baby!" I didn't say anything because I was told this information from my brother on my way to work..so I asked my mom to talk to her about. My mom was pissed but not as pissed as I am..I don't want my sister to have nothing with Ashlyn..I know that sounds kind of harsh but right now I feel like I have a right to feel like this. I mean I could see her being mad at me..but a baby that isn't even here yet? I don't think so!!!Sometimes I wonder if we're from the same gene pool!

I'm sorry hun I hope it gets better for you.

yea sometimes it can get aggravating when ur excited about sumthin' n then someone just likes to be the rain cloud over ur head. sounds like maybe she is kinda jealous since ur getting attention now.

i think its normal for u to feel like u don't want her around cuz ur angry. maybe it'll pass. maybe when the baby is born or even maybe before she'll probly get over it n start to be happy for u. but idk, u never know. i kinda know wut ur goin' thru. my mom is against me havin' this baby and talks alot of shit to me and i'm freakin' bout to be 22 next month!!! she's mad cuz im not havin' a baby with my ex husband. pfft, too damn bad!!! but seems like she's startin' to come around a lil' bit. maybe ur sis will too. i hope thingz get better for u. =)

I'm in basically the same situation, except my sister is the oldest. She is very jealous i am having a baby before her. My bf and i did not plan on getting pregnant at alll we used birth control religiously.. but to her we stole the "first grand baby" glory that was suppose to be hers   i kinda felt bad in the beginning but i can't do much about it anymore

Sucks! My little sister is now saying she wants a baby! Hopefully when the baby comes she'll learn to accept her.

wow i would be pissed too! I wouldnt worry about it to much right now and hopefully when she sees ur little girl those jealous feelings will go away. I hope it works out for u.