GAHH lazy boyfriend HELP

I'm 21, not really a teen mom persay, but i am one lol. my son is almost 6 months old, and i go to school everynight from 6-10pm mon-friday and i work, my bf doesnt work doesnt go to school and because of him we had to move back in with his mom which im so embarrassed about because we DID have everything under control until he decided he didnt want to go to work one day, and now here we are. anyways, i swear to god he doesnt do anything. im up with jonas when he wakes up at night, and at 6.30 am every morning, and yet i still workout and go to school and work and he BITCHES at me that HE HE HE takes care of jonas ALL day1!!! WHAT!!! i ask him just for 1 night to take care of the baby and he is like yea ok, then when it comes time he wont do it!! i get so pissed off. im so tired and ive threatened to leave, but apparently it doesnt have any impact.
And i know this is horrible to say but sometimes Jonas upsets me so much, he needs so much attention now and he cries and screams when im not holding or entertaining him.like right now im trying to do a research paper for school and he is literally yelling right next to me, and i move him to his exersaucer and he yells and cries and his swing and the floor to roll around. and blake is laying there SLEEPING!!!! grrrrrr

thats not fair and because your so busy your pretty much neglecting your child(wich is totally understandable btw)...tell him to get off his ass and help.

You man is lame. Get a new one. Anything is better then a guy who doesn't work, doesn't take care of the baby, and is fine with living at home with his mommy. We were 20 and 22 when we had our first and my (now Hubby) busted his ass to get us where we are now. You deserve someone who's willing to work just as hard as you do.

Quoting Arly-R [HBC]:“ You man is lame. Get a new one. Anything is better then a guy who doesn't work, doesn't take care of ... [snip!] ... and my (now Hubby) busted his ass to get us where we are now. You deserve someone who's willing to work just as hard as you do.”

AHAHA well said!

i have 3 months left until im finally an RN!! yay! and i know that is going to be 1000000x harder than working fulltime at Starbucks lol. i will be able to minus the hours for school, i just feel so frustrated and sometimes wish jonas would just disappear for awhile... :X needless to say i feel like a horrible mama

punch him in the freakin face!!! u didnt make that baby on your own momma and you need to put ur foot down and let him know that!!! kudos to u for all that ur doing trying to better urself so ur son can have a good life while his deadbeat ass is prolly playing video games ! i would sit him down and have a real serious chat and if it falls on deaf ears pack ur stuff and move onnn. u can do it momma there is lots of help for single mommas out there!! oh and if u do leave make sure to file for child support so then his ass will have to get a job or go to jail! good luck !

Quoting my name is [JONAS]3.6.08:“ i have 3 months left until im finally an RN!! yay! and i know that is going to be 1000000x harder than ... [snip!] ... feel so frustrated and sometimes wish jonas would just disappear for awhile... :X needless to say i feel like a horrible mama”

i used to work at starbucks and it was the best job ive ever had  they promote very fast too-i went from assistant manager to manger of a new location in like 2 months! Now i know how to make all the drinks i bought an espresso machine and all thier syrups!

Quoting MeaganHarter:“ punch him in the freakin face!!! u didnt make that baby on your own momma and you need to put ur foot ... [snip!] ... oh and if u do leave make sure to file for child support so then his ass will have to get a job or go to jail! good luck !”

i have packed my shit and was ready to leave, but and i know this sounds SO gay, but i have NO family here, my parents even moved away. i feel so alone here and he is the closest thing i have to family. im almost ... scared?...to leave. if that makes sense. I have nowhere to go. seriously. nowhere. and my fucking car just broke down last week!!!!! so i feel so strnded.

I think a lot of your frustration with your son is misplaced anger at your boyfriend. We all have our days where we'd give our kids away for a quiet house, a bubble bath and a honkin' glass of wine. Doesn't make any of us bad moms and it certainly doesn't make you one. You have a ton on your plate, you're busting your ass and your man (to use the term VERY loosely) is an epic fail in the boyfriend/father/provider department. You're basically a single mom with another baby to take care of- him- and with your school and work, that's not right.

Quoting my name is [JONAS]3.6.08:“ i have 3 months left until im finally an RN!! yay! and i know that is going to be 1000000x harder than ... [snip!] ... feel so frustrated and sometimes wish jonas would just disappear for awhile... :X needless to say i feel like a horrible mama”

That's where your man is supposed to come into play! What the hell else is doing? WTF. Once you're a RN you'll make enough money to leave his ass and get a place of your own for you and your son! He's seems useless. Sorry if that sounds harsh but nursing school is no joke and he should be helping you out in some way! Hey, at least you're almost done!

Quoting Sara12345:“ i used to work at starbucks and it was the best job ive ever had  they promote very fast too-i went ... [snip!] ... of a new location in like 2 months! Now i know how to make all the drinks i bought an espresso machine and all thier syrups!”

ive worked there for a year and a half and keep getting offered a shift position, but its too much stress at our store, we have the highest turnover rate in our district and we dont even have an ASM!! we have 3 shifts and i think 12 baristas. that's it. and we're so ooo busy!!

Quoting jnazmom:“ I think a lot of your frustration with your son is misplaced anger at your boyfriend. We all have our ... [snip!] ... You're basically a single mom with another baby to take care of- him- and with your school and work, that's not right.”

He always tells me he has to "clean up after me" and that he's tired of lugging the weight of me around too! i'm like wtf!! i LUG him around! and he got mad the other day because all our baby spoons were in the dishwasher so i used a plastic spoon and he freaked out and yelled at me, and his mom (who is divorced from his father) said he sounded just like his dad and we almost broke up over that but its just stupid shit we fight about. i hate living here. im here with 3 teenage boys, my bf, jonas, me and his mom and step dad in a THREE, yes i said THREE bedroom house!!

Quoting my name is [JONAS]3.6.08:“ i have packed my shit and was ready to leave, but and i know this sounds SO gay, but i have NO family ... [snip!] ... makes sense. I have nowhere to go. seriously. nowhere. and my fucking car just broke down last week!!!!! so i feel so strnded.”

i know what u r going thru i moved away from all my family and went thru some stuff with my bf and had no one to turn to and nowhere to go soo i finally sat down with his family and let them know exactly what had been happening ad then we all sat down together and worked it out

Quoting Arly-R [HBC]:“ That's where your man is supposed to come into play! What the hell else is doing? WTF. Once you're a ... [snip!] ... that sounds harsh but nursing school is no joke and he should be helping you out in some way! Hey, at least you're almost done!”

i know im so excited im almost finished with school. but my grades are dropping. i know its not much, but i HAD a 4.0 and i just got my first B which PISSES ME OFFFFFFF!!! i had an 88! and i know its because i dont get study time and im depressed and frustrated.!!! grrrrrr

Quoting MeaganHarter:“ i know what u r going thru i moved away from all my family and went thru some stuff with my bf and had ... [snip!] ... sat down with his family and let them know exactly what had been happening ad then we all sat down together and worked it out”

i want to do that, but then blake always makes ME out to be the bad person.