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Yup. 
Haha well me and my s.o are going through a bad 'phase' but a phase non the less. I've made him stay home at night for the past two weeks, and said no to sex because I dont want when we see eachother to just drop our pants, forget our relationship problems, and do the dirty deed.
But also, even when I WANT to have sex, I cant because I too am a huge ball of MISERY and pain. And the last thing on my mind is opening my legs. The first thing on my mind is a niiiiiiice foot rub. Lol. I dont feel bad for being in pain and not wanting to please him. If he wants to get some so much, then too bad. He'll just have to resort to his lotion and tissues. Oh, and he'll have to throw them away himself because I'm not picking up after him either.

lol.

Quoting Bell Jarr:“ Yup.  Haha well me and my s.o are going through a bad 'phase' but a phase non the less. I've made him ... [snip!] ... to his lotion and tissues. Oh, and he'll have to throw them away himself because I'm not picking up after him either. lol.”

lol i feel u mama! ha yea we have been arguing about it alot ...and it seems llike everytime hes nice to me, and offers a back rub,or to cook for meits cuz he wants some damn sex! ugh and that makes me even more NOT want to do it...

Hell yea, sex isnt even apart of my vocabulary right now.... I can't even stay up past 9:00, my legs are always sore and im in constant pain...so I know where your coming from. Don't worry your not alone 

Im not preggers anymore, but when I was I felt the exact same way. And my man did not like it...lol....but you have to do what feels right for you. Like you said, he doesn't have to feel uncomfortable, you do. Don't worry, you' ll have a better day.

im only 27 weeks but things are the samde for me... one day i want it all day and the next i dont even want to kiss him...... he hates it... he doesnt understand lol

Quoting *EmmasMommy*:“ im only 27 weeks but things are the samde for me... one day i want it all day and the next i dont even want to kiss him...... he hates it... he doesnt understand lol”

i was like that but not only did i not want to kiss him, i didnt want him to touch me at all. Not even my tummy. Were not together now. But was that normal.

Quoting -Love, Mama&Baby:“ i was like that but not only did i not want to kiss him, i didnt want him to touch me at all. Not even my tummy. Were not together now. But was that normal.”

i get like that sometimes too..where i just absolutely dont wat to be touched!

well im 24 weeks & 4 days& through the first trimester i could have sex ..then the secound trimester comes and i can even do it.its not that i dont want it .it just hurts really bad because my baby is really low.that might be why.but for the most part my attatude hasnt changed a bit i dont even get moody..thats so strange i think but i guess its normal lol.im just always happy go lucky.i didnt start getting morning sickness until 15 weeks..so i dont know

Quoting -Love, Mama&Baby:“ i was like that but not only did i not want to kiss him, i didnt want him to touch me at all. Not even my tummy. Were not together now. But was that normal.”

i dont know but im still like that all the time and i have to make my self kiss him and some times like i want to have sex but in the middle of it im like get that thing out of me ... im sure he is so frustrated! and i feel bad!