Need help finding a song..

Ok it was a cheating r and b song from the 90's, i cant reamember the words! in the video she is shopping with all his money and bought a car is driving around singing.. I want to say in the hook she say "and thats for cheating on me" but i am not sure. it is driving me crazy PLEASE HELP!

don't ask me why the hell i know this, but it's blu cantrel (not 100% on spelling).

i have this cd somehwere haha

i think the girls name was blu or something. ill check

this one:
Artist : Blu Cantrell
Title : Hit Em Up Style

While he was schemeing
I was beamin in the Beamer just beamin
Can't believe that I caught my man cheatin'
So I found another way to make him pay for it all

So I went
To Neiman-Marcus on a shopping spree
And on the way I grabbed Soley and Mia
And as the cash box rang I thought everything away

(Oops)
There goes the dreams we used to say
(oops)
There goes the time we spent away
(oops)
There goes the love I had but you cheated on me
And thats worth that now
(oops)
There goes the house we made a home
(oops)
There goes you'll never leave me alone
For all the lies you told
This is what you owe

Hey Ladies
When your man wanna get buckwild
Just go back and Hit 'Em Up Style
Put your hands on his cash
And spend it to the last dime
For all the hard times
Oh
When you go then everything goes
From the crib to the ride and the clothes
So you better let him know that
If he messed up you gotta hit em up

While he was braggin
I was coming down the hill and just draggin
All his pictures and his clothes in the baggin
Sold everything else till there was just nothin left

And I paid
All the bills about a month too late
It's a shame we have to play these games
The love we had just fades away, away

(Oops)
There goes the dreams we used to say
(oops)
There goes the time we spent away
(oops)
There goes the love I had but you cheated on me
And thats worth that now
(oops)
There goes the house we made a home
(oops)
There goes you'll never leave me alone
For all the lies you told
This is what you owe

Hey Ladies
When your man wanna get buckwild
Just go back and Hit 'Em Up Style
Put your hands on his cash
And spend it to the last dime
For all the hard times
Oh
When you go then everything goes
From the crib to the ride and the clothes
So you better let him know that
If he messed up you gotta hit em up

Repeat 1x

All of the dreams you sold
Left me out in the cold
What happened to the days when we used to trust each other
And all of the things I sold
Will take you until you get old
To get 'em back without me
revenge is better than money you'll see

Hey Ladies
When your man wanna get buckwild
Just go back and Hit 'Em Up Style
Put your hands on his cash
And spend it to the last dime
For all the hard times
Oh
When you go then everything goes
From the crib to the ride and the clothes
So you better let him know that
If he messed up you gotta hit em up

CHORUS

OMG thats it! why didn't i do this sooner i have been googling everything i know for days and could't find it! THANKS A BUNCH 

Quoting r3n3:“ OMG thats it! why didn't i do this sooner i have been googling everything i know for days and could't find it! THANKS A BUNCH ”

Lol, no problem
It's a good song.  

I used to love that song!

Quoting Mommy2Bella~&~Isaiah:“ I used to love that song!”

I know its one of those songs you would put on repeat in the car and crank up and sing too lol.. i was trying to make a cd of all those songs and could not think of the name to this one! lol