Single moms tell your story...

Well i wouldn't be a single mom if it werent for my boyfriends parents sending him away. The story goes...
I met this really cute albanian boy and everything was cool til i found out his parents wouldn't let him date... later i found out he was aloud to date just not american girl, mind you he lived in the U.S. Well one thing leads to another and i am prego.
My parents thought he should tell his folks. I few weeks went by and he didnt tell them. My parents decide one day while i was work to go tell them. Not a good idea. Their little talk became a fight, his parents said the baby wasnt his when his mom knew we were together, names we exchanged and everthing.
So then he came to stay with us that night and few weeks later his parents said they cool with it, which was such a lie.
Right before Christmas they told him his grandma was dying and they were going to see her. Later the parents come back and left my boyfriend in his country. He's missed out on the first 3 months of his daughters life... he writes to me and wishes he was here but his parents took his passport and he is not allowed to get a temp because he is not yet 18.

wow, thats horrible. i wish you the best of luck

That is terrible.! I'm sorry!!

Quoting Angie Wheeler:“ Well i wouldn't be a single mom if it werent for my boyfriends parents sending him away. The story goes... ... [snip!] ... to me and wishes he was here but his parents took his passport and he is not allowed to get a temp because he is not yet 18.”

Wow! Thats ridiculous!

Hmm my story? I guess its kind of complicated and long (what single mom story isnt). Last October I was told that my chances of ever reproducing were extremely slim. I was entering premature menopause at age 20. My ex and I had been together for 3 years at the time, and it was rocky to say the least. In early December I caught him in a very compromising situation with another girl, and vowed to walk away once and for all. I ended up dating an ex of mine from high school that I had previously dated for two years. Things fell into place wtih him suprisingly easy, and when it came to birth control, I had told him about the reproductive issue (it was a pretty hard topic to talk about) and we decided not to try to prevent a pregnancy in any way, not necessarily TTC (I didnt want that heartache every month), but just not preventing it. By the end of January, I was pregnant. Anyway, turns out that guy never stopped seeing his ex, and thats where it ended. I went back to my ex, and its been back and forth ever since, but at this point, I seriously give up. Im almost 9 months pregnant. Im not comfortable dating anyone, especially not with anyone seeing me naked. And the babys father? Beat up his ex for the second time and is now spending his days and nights in the MCCF. Havent heard anything from him, and Im not on the visiting list for him.

so sorry that you have to go through this... I wish the best for you & your little one... Just think possitive & send him lots & lots of pics... My heart goes out to u sweetie!!

I just left my son's father on Sunday and could not be happier. Story is long and starts 6 years ago, but bottom line is that he did not treat me the way I deserve to be treated so I am done. For real this time. It is weird how when you have a baby you become even stronger.

Quoting Troy's Mama:“ I just left my son's father on Sunday and could not be happier. Story is long and starts 6 years ago, ... [snip!] ... way I deserve to be treated so I am done. For real this time. It is weird how when you have a baby you become even stronger.”

wow!! I'm so happy 4 u & I dont even know you.. You really inspire me.. I mean cause i have a sister thats with a dumbASS!! she has two kids by him & she just found out he is a sex offender & still CANT find herself leaving him!!! we need more strong women in this world like u!!!!

diff. i'am still trying to get that strong, btw i'am from houston

Quoting sparklebabygirl:“ diff. i'am still trying to get that strong, btw i'am from houston”

If its in your heart sweetie, you will get there.. think about your future... Dont try & please others first.. you have to think about your baby & his or her future... God bless u hunn.. hope all goes well with u...

am 17 an single am 9 months prego an not with the babys dad i havent talk to him for like 3 going to 4 months i was with him for like 2 yrs an he always told me that we where going to be togther forever ...yae rightyour baby girl is so cute

im all so a single mum and my story is i was with my bf only 3months and i wss on the pill but i missed one and feel preganat with my son i told him the day i did the test. he left me he new my due date i had nothing off him. i not had any phones from the day i told him i was pregnant and my son is now 4months old now

Quoting xxx codis mummy xxx:“ im all so a single mum and my story is i was with my bf only 3months and i wss on the pill but i missed ... [snip!] ... due date i had nothing off him. i not had any phones from the day i told him i was pregnant and my son is now 4months old now”

?? what, not trying to be rude but it hard to understand

I was with my ex for a year.
In the beginning he struggled with heroin addiction, but he went to rehab for about 3 months and overcome it, I was there for him every step of the way.
When he got out I convinced his parents to let him back in there house, and helped him get his life in order.
One day, 6 months after rehab I had a positive feeling he was doing heroin again. So I confronted him and he lied, even though I know the signs of heroin use, and anything else for that matter.
He then admitted to me that he ONLY had stolen 20 pills from his mother.
I knew he wasn't lying about that, but he was lying about the fact he was doing heroin.
The next morning his mother had called me and told me he actually had taken over 140 of her perscription pills, and what made it even more pathetic is that she had just gotten a serious surgery and needed the pills.

I tried helping him, but a few months later, he relapsed again.
That's when I broke up with him and told him it was over.

Two months later, I found out I was pregnant:/
I don't want to be with him, I don't plan on being with him.
He's currently dating a girl who was supposed to be my best friend, still using heroin.
I really don't think he wants to be in the child's life, regardless, I don't want my child being around a disgusting person like him.

I currently have a really wonderful boyfriend 
& I'm due in November 

Quoting ♥Krissy♥:“ wow!! I'm so happy 4 u & I dont even know you.. You really inspire me.. I mean cause i have a sister ... [snip!] ... found out he is a sex offender & still CANT find herself leaving him!!! we need more strong women in this world like u!!!!”

Thanks hun! It is amazing how a baby can change your life and your whole perspective on things!

I'm 16 years old. My relationship with the boy I lost my virginity to started three years ago. We had only dated a week before I had lost my virginity to him and him to me. After that, our relationship was only sex for a few months. But, we began to really get to know each other and open up and I fell so in love with him. After a year and a half of dating, in March of 2007 I found out I was pregnant for the first time. Even thou I was on birth control. I was so happy. I was 15 but I couldn't have been happier. A girl who had been trying to get pregnant and hadn't gotten pregnant, talked me into going into a hot tub. I did not know it was unsafe. The next day I woke up to heavy bleeding, I fever of 103, back pain and cramping so bad I couldn't move my legs, and a migrain so bad that if I moved my head even just an inch I would vomit. That was when him and I decided to break up.

We had an accasional partneringship. We would have sex from time to time. But never really got involed. But, with the heartbreak and pain I experianced with my miscarriage I refused to take any form of birth control. I went into a deep depression and I continued to beat myself up for the death of my unborn child.

In March of 2008,my ex and I talked about getting back together after he came back from boot camp. Before he left, he came over on March 2nd and we had unprotected sex. But, after a year of it, and never getting pregnant I thought I couldn't get pregnant.

But, I ended up pregnant. My ex swears it's not his and that I should have aborted.

But, I'm happy with my daughter and I can't wait to see her and tend to her like a mother is suppose to!