stressed [vent]

If you do read all of this thank you so much. If not thats fine too. i usually just skim over vents too. I just needed to get that all out.


I have been so stressed out lately. I need a better paying job SO bad. So does my husband. We need to move out and just riase our son all on our own. Right now we are living with my parents and its so hard. I love how much they have helped but its time for us to move on. Sometimes they just fight with us over everything having to do with him. From wether or not tohim to the doctor when hes sick to what he should wear  pretty much everything. i know they are only trying to help but they do spoil him and now my son is soooo attatched to his gradnmother and she just lets him get away with everything! We just got a car from my mil that we were supposed to get a year ago  she let some guy borrow it now it has no AC among other problems. yea, were i live its about 104-120 out. My son will not be riding around in that car. I finally found a new car to buy after searching and searching and just being let down. We are trying to save up and move out but we pay rent to help with the mortgage which is 1,700. We help with food. We go shopping every two weeks and we pay for at least one of the trips. We also pay my mom when she babysits. The good thign is shes gelxable and if we don't have the money she will wait a week or two and its not like she will kick us out plus the babysitting is much cheaper than a daycare. Still its very hard on us. We went to the DES to get insurance. They said we were approved and i was so happy! then a few days later we found otu we weren't. wtf! you can only make like 600 and something a month and together we make more. So now we are all covered for about a week by mistake haha. Theres probably a ton of other things i am upset about but just can't even get it all out. Theres just so much going on and so much i want to do to imrove my life but i just don't even know were to start. On top of all this my son is sick and has three teeth that are comign through. ugh

It will get better hun. Just take it one thing at a time. Pm me if you need to talk

Sounds about what me and my boyfriend are going through.

We JUST got a car 2 weeks ago, now he's looking for a better job so we can move out.

I'm trying to find a job as well, I moved in with my dad and his gf and to pay "rent" I babysat in return, now shes in school so I can find a job.. but not having much luck.

I know its hard, just dont get discouraged; I do all the time and it will just cause more stress on the baby.
Good luck mama!