Is a freakin Thank You that hard?

So Sorry its so long! I am just so frustrated.

So i busted my ass on the house today. I did the dishes, laundry, cleaned out the panty and the fridge, took the slip covers off of the couches and took the linens off of all the beds, cleaned the fans (they were gross) dusted, and pollished all the wood, gave the cat and two dogs a bath. NONE of them like water. i swept and mopped the floor, i weeded the yard and gardens, i pruned the bushes, and repotted some plants. Ok and all of this is while my son who is teething is awake, and actually happy for once, and this is all before 2 this afternoon. My DH didn't come to bed til FIVE and didn't get up til FOUR. I went to bed at 10 last night and got up with our son at 12, 3, 6. at six i finally just stayed up. so when my DH comes down stairs what are the first words out of his mouth? WHY HAVEN'T YOU FIXED LUNCH YET? Not hey everything looks great honey. nothing. just where's my lunch. I was so pissed i just went upstairs and stayed up there.

then he tells me later that "daniel and I are boring we never want to leave the house". what the hell. I am not the one who slept all fucking day. i swear to god i don't get why i love him so much. he pisss me off so bad. i should be treated with respect. ya know? i work as an online assistant, i take care of our son, he does nothing with daniel at all, i call it a good day if he holds him once, (he keeps saying he can't wait til daniel wants to come to him, well bud that's never going to happen cause you don't do shit with your son.) and i keep up with two six month old dogs and the house. I sometimes think that i should just quit. but i honestly love him so much and as most of you know we were on a break for three weeks while i was gone and now i see that i do love him but i am not sure that he feels the same... i am sorry this is so rambling.... i just somethimes wish that i thought enough of myself to get over him and get me and daniel to a better place. back with my family who really appreciates us.

ugh ok thanks for reading

I'm really sorry :[[

Do you tell him these things when he does stuff like that to you? Did you tell him everything you did all day while his lazy butt was sleeping? Honestly, if I was in your shoes I would flippin lose it. Idk how you do it. I would have told him "You're a grown man, make your own damn lunch. I'm busy taking care of the house".

Yeah i told him. I tell him every time he is unappreciative or insensitive and he tells me that i am overreacting and being bitchy.  

Quoting Daniels_Mommy:“ Yeah i told him. I tell him every time he is unappreciative or insensitive and he tells me that i am overreacting and being bitchy.  ”

Ugh, what a butthead! I'm pretty sure he's being the bitchy one. I thought he realized that he was close to losing you and all of that. He seriously needs a reality check.

I'm gonig through the exact same thing...ugh. Sorry mama I know it sucks

Sounds like he doesn't realise how excellent of a woman you are. I get pissed off just because people don't say thank you when I wash up so I know what you're going through. SO appreciates it all, but the other people living here don't even acknowledge anything I do and just bitch when I don't do it. Maybe you should just cut down on the cleaning a bit, or stop cleaning whatever mess he makes until he realises what a difference you make around the house.

Quoting Beth [due 12-25-08]:“ Ugh, what a butthead! I'm pretty sure he's being the bitchy one. I thought he realized that he was close to losing you and all of that. He seriously needs a reality check.”

that's what i thought. i thought that he got it. but obviously not.