my babies sad story

Well to all of you who personally know me know that i have a big heart and i would help anyone that i could. Once again i have hadmy big heart crushed. No my husband isnt leaving me. Someone else that i have only met 21 weeks ago is leaving me. I found out that i was prego back in april and couldnt have been more excited.Monday the 11th of Augustwas my schedualed day to find out what the baby was a boy or a girl my son keeps telling me how bad he wanted a sister. So we woke up all excited ready for the great news. and ready for the day. turns out that it wasnt going to be a good day after all.we went in and in the first 30 minutes it seemed to be good news. we saw a stronge heart beat and arms and legs and the babies face and everything loked wonderful i was excited but they baby wouldnt open the legs so we could see the anatomy. did wiggle of the toe and move the feet though that was cute. then the ultrasound tech said that she had to go get the dr to see things that she had a hard time finding. But the dr came in and told me that the baby wasnt ok. and had less then a one in a thousand chance of making it. my fetus has cystis hygroma and there is nothing that they can there is nothing that i can do and the outcome looks grim no matter what. the Dr told me that in my circumstance they can offer to terminate the pregnancy. But after seeing that baby still had a good stronge heart beat what mother could just give up. my baby hasnt yet that baby is still alive and trying . So i choose to wait it out and see. right now baby is almost completely healthy. but sometime between now and my due date they expect me to miscarry this baby my heart is broken my spirits are crushed and there is nothing that i can do to fix this. Dr said that it was nothing that i did or nothing that i could have done to fix or prevent this but as the mommy i feel like i failed to protect my baby. so the worst has yet to come but i cant give up not now not yet. well love you all

oh my goodness, im so sorry.

ill keep you and the baby in my prayers.

I'm so sorry, but maybe you have one of those Miracle Babies, and everything will turn out ok. Good luck.

That is horrible news... I am so sorry mama.
You'll get lots of support from the girls here...

thank you it is very much appreciated

Oh my goodness. This just breaks my heart and brings tears to my eyes. I can't find any words that could possibly make it better. I will keep you in my prayers. God still works miracles so don't give up hope.

i am so so sorry ill pray for u and your baby maybe things will turn out ok in the end.... 

i am so so sorry ill pray for u and your baby maybe things will turn out ok in the end.... 

I'm sorry  

Way to stay strong, hun!! You'll be in my thoughts

Well that is terrible news i hope you and your baby do ok and the baby makes it. You never know what life can throw at you. I hope all goes well.

im so sorry.

Quoting momma fuss:“ Well to all of you who personally know me know that i have a big heart and i would help anyone that i ... [snip!] ... i feel like i failed to protect my baby. so the worst has yet to come but i cant give up not now not yet. well love you all”

Im sorry for your pain. I dont personally know you seeing as you only have 1 post......... but i know how heartbreaking it is to be told your baby isnt going to make it. I went through it last year (with a different condition) and my daughter didn't make it. Why did they tell you this? normally this is not a fatal condition, so many people have it and its treatable. They told me DD would pass away and i would lose them both soon, however they were wrong! She made it several weeks until i delivered. I hope they will be wrong for you too.

Quoting momma fuss:“ Well to all of you who personally know me know that i have a big heart and i would help anyone that i ... [snip!] ... i feel like i failed to protect my baby. so the worst has yet to come but i cant give up not now not yet. well love you all”

Awww!! Im soooo sorry!! Keep your head up and faith alive!!

That is awful. I knew a girl in high school that went through the same thing. She miscarried at 26 weeks. It was awful. I think you're doing the right thing with waiting it out, and your baby and you are and will be in my prayers. It's sad that you have to go through this. I'm so sorry. I hope everything goes okay for you in the future.

And, you never know, you may carry it long enough to have it premature. There are things with that that most people don't know.

Again, I'm sorry.

I am so sorry. I could never imagine what you are going through. You never know, things may be better, miracles do happen.



I will keep you both in my thoughts!