re: my babies sad story

I don't know you personally, but I don't think I could feel any worse if I did. My heart is so broken for you right now, I am so sorry this happened to you and your family.
I can't imagine being faced with the decision of terminating a pregnancy, especially under those circumstances.
I don't want to offer any false hope, but my first thought after reading your story was "maybe a miracle will happen". The only advice I can offer you is this...keep coming back here, share your feelings and take advantage of the support of all the wonderful ladies here.
Take care honey, and good luck.

Quoting momma fuss:“ Well to all of you who personally know me know that i have a big heart and i would help anyone that i ... [snip!] ... i feel like i failed to protect my baby. so the worst has yet to come but i cant give up not now not yet. well love you all”

I am so sorry, you are such a strong woman! I pray Gods healing on you and your family, we will all be praying for you and for the baby. I wish there were some words to comfort you in this time, but i know there are none. Please don't feel like you failed to protect your baby, you didnt do anything wrong, even though i know its easier said than done, please don't take the blame on yourself, its just something that happened, please don't think its your fault. Your in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you

with God all things are possible!

Quoting kg198202:“ with God all things are possible!”

Amen to that!

with God all things are possible!

You will find lots of support with this wonderful group of ladies. I will be praying for a miracle for you and your little one!

Thanks toall of you that have me and my baby in hearts and prayers. I am a firm believer in miracles and I have all my hope and faith that mybaby will get a chance to be another miracle. I have another ultrasound wednesday and i have my fingers crossed and trying my hardest to think possitive.

I am so sorry, from the bottom of my heart! I know it must be impossible to keep up faith and hope, but miracles do happen! I know it, because I am one of those miracles. Last year in June my family and I were told that I would die of cancer within months.They said all they could do would be to ease the pain and guide me and my family until the near end. I don't want to expose the whole story here, but all I can say is that I am still here!!! I just had my annual check-up and I am healthy. The docotors were wrong!
I think it is the only right decision to wait and not terminate the pregnancy! Even if 1 in a 1000 is a very slim chance, it still is a chance! I will pray for you and your baby. 

I was a miracle at the age of seven i was run over by a drunk driver in my parents driveway they had to life flight me from the damages the tire of the pickup went over my head and they told my parent to give up that if they manged to stabilize me and i made it threw the night i would be severly brain damaged............. Well my mom and dad stayed with me every day for 14 weeks in the hospital till i walked out on my own they didnt give up just cause i had a heart beat they wouldnt i was on a breathing machine for 10 weeks that i couldnt breath on my own. but my heart didnt need life support. at seven i had to learn to walk talk eat play everything all over again. the dr.s told my parent that i couldnt do it to give up. i did it im 23 years old and still here so im praying that my baby has the strength that i had to push past what they say and prove them all wrong. This is why i am a firm beliver that miracles do happen.

Quoting momma fuss:“ I was a miracle at the age of seven i was run over by a drunk driver in my parents driveway they had ... [snip!] ... that i had to push past what they say and prove them all wrong. This is why i am a firm beliver that miracles do happen.”

Wow! What an inspiring story.  

Quoting momma fuss:“ I was a miracle at the age of seven i was run over by a drunk driver in my parents driveway they had ... [snip!] ... that i had to push past what they say and prove them all wrong. This is why i am a firm beliver that miracles do happen.”

All things are possible! you and your lil one are in my thoughts and prayers! heck I was a miracle - they didn't expect either my mom or I to live ... she broke her water w/me in the 3rd month, I laid on her digestive systemso she couldn't eat (OK I was a problem from the start LOL)... I was barely 29 weeks ... and we're both here!!! Keep the faith ;)

our story of hope.... i was paralysed and in a body cast for 9 months at 14 years old - i learnt to walk again, sit up, basically do everything from scratch. I was in labour with the twins since 20 weeks, even though my daughter passed - my son still made it. They were born 3mo early. He was on ECMO (external heart and lungs), numerous infections and brain hemorrhages amongst other things - they told me on severaloccasions that he wouldnt survive. He is now 9 months old.

Do keep up hope. Like i already said in a previous post,what your baby has is not a fatal condition - especially being 21 weeks pregnant. Please get a second opinion. There are millions of people living with this condition and they are fine. In later pregnancy the chances are very good for a healthy outcome. I wish you peace and strength hun

Hello ladies,
I love all these stories of hope and miracle. We should make a post just them. I believe many of us and many of the ladies in the TTC forum could use inspirational posts like those.

Did you have another u/s? I am thinking of you and your little baby. I pray that your little one is still doing fine and that everything will be ok at the end!
Much love!

Quoting momma fuss:“ Well to all of you who personally know me know that i have a big heart and i would help anyone that i ... [snip!] ... i feel like i failed to protect my baby. so the worst has yet to come but i cant give up not now not yet. well love you all”

don't give up have hope and faith in god