I dont know what to do

I have a boyfriend iam almost 35 weeks pregnant but nothing is working out like some days he shows me that he loves me other days he just ignores me ...
I love him Very much we been together for 3 years ...he said he wanted a baby and he would change and has he no he hasnt...he treats me like trash and dose whatever he wants behind my back but dosent admit it ..and i cant do anything..  I dont know what to i have tried to leave him but everytime i do i come back to him ...   

im sorry ......its always horrible when stuff like this happens my best advice to u is even if u know u will go back to him leave him for even if its just a week and try to show him what its like to be with out u cuz u know they say u never know what u have till its gone...

Quoting iwannabdone:“ im sorry ......its always horrible when stuff like this happens my best advice to u is even if u know ... [snip!] ... just a week and try to show him what its like to be with out u cuz u know they say u never know what u have till its gone...”

Yeah thats what i think ... He just dosent appreactate me..

Well sounds like you have a choice. Your going to change the situation your in, or you need to accept it for what it is and make peace with it. You can not change him. You can change your reaction to his crap though. I realize you are almost at the end of your pregnancy and this is the last thing you want to deal with. But with that said, now is the time to set the presedent on how things are going to be. Soon you will have a little one to worry about, and I would stress to your boyfriend that your time to deal with his shit will be minimal.

unfortunatly your right i went through that faze with my husband to u have to be mean it sounds funny but they only respect u when u dont respect them thats only some guys though but definatly try to be hard on him and show him u dont need him that it is with u that he wants to be not cuz he has to and if dont change then he dont deserve u

Quoting I Love My Baby  :“ I have a boyfriend iam almost 35 weeks pregnant but nothing is working out like some days he shows me ... [snip!] ... i cant do anything..  I dont know what to i have tried to leave him but everytime i do i come back to him ...   ”

Be a stronger person. Your little one doesn't need a daddy. Especially not a daddy that will ignore him one day and be there for him the next.... It's not fair to the baby..... Babies need mommies..... You need to take care of yourself emotionally when you're pregnant. And him being around at all seems to be damaging..... rather than helping....  

Quoting iwannabdone:“ unfortunatly your right i went through that faze with my husband to u have to be mean it sounds funny ... [snip!] ... and show him u dont need him that it is with u that he wants to be not cuz he has to and if dont change then he dont deserve u”

I have tried to be mean ...he might say oh yea i ll change and the next day his the same..

Quoting I Love My Baby  :“ I have tried to be mean ...he might say oh yea i ll change and the next day his the same..”

i hate to say it but if he is like that u need to leave him he dont deserve u or your baby ...

Quoting iwannabdone:“ i hate to say it but if he is like that u need to leave him he dont deserve u or your baby ...”

He always say that if i leave him his going to take away the baby..

Quoting I Love My Baby  :“ He always say that if i leave him his going to take away the baby..”

and i wouldnt want that becaues i am the one taking care of him and he dosent do anything all he dose is hang out with his friends till 2 at night without telling me..

Quoting I Love My Baby  :“ and i wouldnt want that becaues i am the one taking care of him and he dosent do anything all he dose is hang out with his friends till 2 at night without telling me..”

they all say that but he cant do that its a long long process and as long as u keep your baby safe no judge will ever let that happen.... your going to be a mom so u have to grow up even if he wont it will be hard its even hard for me i think its one of the hardest things that we all have to go trough but your baby will need u plus trying to get custody costs alot of money and if he is acting like that he probably cant afford it lol...