he don't like to talk to me....

Well for one you can be the bigger person and not resort to throwing things. I know it's frustrating when you are fighting but you need to find a healthy way to work out your problems. When you get into an argument don't take it personally and don't call names. Don't try to attack him. It's healthy to have arguments, but that doesn't mean they need to escalate to name calling and throwing things. You need to be talking things out before it even gets to that point. If you need to go in another room and take a few minutes, that's better than throwing things at him. It's probably not going to happen over night but you guys need to figure out how to be able to argue and work out your problems before the baby gets there. You guys can't be calling names and throwing things around a new born.

It sounds like ya'll aren't a good match for each other.
Me and my fiance argue as every couple does.
But he shouldn't be calling you a bitch, and you shouldn't be throwing things at each other.
Maybe ya'll need a break.
Just because you have a baby together, doesn't mean you should be together.

Quoting Beth [due 12-25-08]:“ Well for one you can be the bigger person and not resort to throwing things. I know it's frustrating ... [snip!] ... and work out your problems before the baby gets there. You guys can't be calling names and throwing things around a new born.”

yeah i know i shouldn't be throwing things, but it's better than hitting him right? then that would just add on... i've came a long a lil way with that & he has 2 with the name calling, but we have no communication & he confuses me so much because he'd rather talk to someone else about us than me.

i know what u mean... me and bd actually broke up a week before i found out i was preg and now we are tryin to work things out... but OMG there are days i jsut want to kill him... i never realized how immature and selfish he can be.... he needs to realize that for once this IS all about me... he keeps tellin me he knows how i feel and that we are both going through the same thing.... NO WE ARE NOT... i wish i could throw him sometimes..

Quoting mommymack4707:“ i know what u mean... me and bd actually broke up a week before i found out i was preg and now we are ... [snip!] ... he knows how i feel and that we are both going through the same thing.... NO WE ARE NOT... i wish i could throw him sometimes..”

lol i'm with ya sister! that's what my bf shane says... he knows how i feel & what i'm going thru.. haha yeah right! he don't even listen when i try to tell him how i feel...i say let them get preg & go thru what we do with them & carrying a child.... then they'll know how we feel!

...lol it made me laugh when you said the one word you hated most being called was a bitch..LOL,wich makes me think YOU ARE ONE and youve heard it alot!

Quoting Sara12345:“ ...lol it made me laugh when you said the one word you hated most being called was a bitch..LOL,wich makes me think YOU ARE ONE and youve heard it alot!”

no my bf called me one cuz i didn't want drugs & alcohol brought in my house by his dad..... that's what the whole thing was over. i'm not one, but i guess u'd have to know me to see that.

Wow. Atleast Im not the only one whos man does crap like that. Mine got mad at me cause I was hungry and wanted fast food. He was already going out to pick himself up a pack of smokes, I didnt think it would be a big deal for him to get me some fast food!

Quoting preggy-alicious jay *:“ Wow. Atleast Im not the only one whos man does crap like that. Mine got mad at me cause I was hungry ... [snip!] ... already going out to pick himself up a pack of smokes, I didnt think it would be a big deal for him to get me some fast food!”

sux don't it?!?