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NEED HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE!!!!

posted 21st Aug
ok so here goes...............i am losing my baby's daddy and the love of my life.....i dont know what i would if i lost him forever....so any help or suggestions from any of you ladies would be greatly appreciated!!! i dont care if its in the bedroom or not........just help me try to win him back....i still live with him but we are not together........and i need help!!!!!!!!!1
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I'm due October 13th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Ohio
posted 21st Aug
did he say why he's leaving?
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I have 1 child & live in Oceanside, California
posted 21st Aug
You can find some support on this post if you want, alot of ladies going through similar situations.http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about305317-3.html
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I have 1 child & live in East Hartford, Connecticut
posted 21st Aug
You can't force anyone to be with you. The best thing that I can suggest is that you sit down and talk out your issues, but don't stay together for the baby because that will cause more problems later on. Good luck and I hope things work out but if they don't always remember that it isn't the end of the world. Sorry I don't mean to sound harsh just realistic.
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posted 21st Aug
Dude, sleeping with someone to get them back isn't going to help.
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 21st Aug
You can't force him to stay if he doesn't want to stay. In fact, it would just make things worse. Just talk to him. See what you two can do to try to make it better. Good luck
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Springfield, Missouri
posted 21st Aug
Quoting BelindaJones:“ You can't force anyone to be with you. The best thing that I can suggest is that you sit down and talk ... [snip!] ... out but if they don't always remember that it isn't the end of the world. Sorry I don't mean to sound harsh just realistic.”

I agree with you... you cannot force someone to be with you. Just try talking to him to see what is best.. and that may be that you aren't together. It will be hard if that is the case, but better for you in the end.
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I'm due May 30th, have 1 child & live in Iowa
posted 21st Aug
Let him go. If he doesn't want to be with you there is nothing you can do, you will survive and life will go on. Someday when you least expect it there will be someone else that will appreciate you and love you more than him, and you the same, leaving you to wonder why you even thought you needed him in your life forever. Just remember the good times, and make sure that although he doesn't want to be with you that a friendship needs to be carried on for the sake of the baby. I know this is not what you want to hear, but sometimes the truth hurts. Yes you will cry and wonder what went wrong, but try to remember you have a little one to take care of and that you need to be strong for. If it's meant to be you need to give him his space to realize that he needs you too.
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I'm due March 19th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Meriden, Connecticut
posted 21st Aug
Oh this is a hard one. I don't think there's any advice that anyone can give you to keep him with you. First you need to talk to him and find out why he wants to leave, maybe it's something that can be resolved and if it's not then let him go. Also don't involve the baby in it, you know by saying that if he leaves he won't see the baby. Maybe he also just needs some time away to realize wheter he loves you or not. It's really hard and it's gonna get harder but then it will get way better than it ever was.
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I'm due March 2nd (a boy) & live in Albuquerque, New Mexico
posted 21st Aug
My husband and I had issues in the past sometimes they got to the point to where we didn't know if it was going to work out, we weren't going to stay together for the kids because it would be harder on them seeing us argue all the time and we spent MANY hours talking and working through our issues. I thought at one point we were going to need to go through marriage counceling but all you do there is talk out your issues as well so we didn't really see the point.
We sat down and took turns on what was bothering us in our relationship and it really came down to we both thought that we were putting in more effort than the other person and that we didn't feel appriciated. We worked on those issues and we both give 100% mine was I felt that I didn't get enough help with the kids and house work and he felt as though I didn't appriciate him for all the hard work he was doing at work. He helps me with the kids and the house work more now and I let him know that he is a great provider for our family. Sometimes it is the simplest things that need working on like complements to each other every now and then. If you have an issue that can be resolved than talking about them and working on improvements is the only thing you can do, if that doesn't work than you can pretty much consider that it is over. You both have to work at it not just one person. Good luck.
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