re: miscarried...

Quoting [12]♥[24]♥[:“ Well the way the schools are now, anything you tell the counselor, they're required to report it (that's ... [snip!] ... tell her counselor what she's feeling, they would deff. help her. Don't feel sorry for her. She had/has options open to her.”

k, i dont know about schools over there but doesnt that breech the confidentiality rules somehow?

Quoting my-eggo-is-preggo:“ Maybe she fell down the stairs thinking that she would die, and the child would live. Uneducated people ... [snip!] ... fine... but my tail bone was fucked for a good bit, and I had bruises gallore. Seems to me like it was more than an accident...”

  baha! I LOOOOVE your name!  

Quoting Outrageous Fortune $$:“ k, i dont know about schools over there but doesnt that breech the confidentiality rules somehow?”

Not if the conselor feels that the child is a risk to themselves, or to others. They are required by law to say something. If the counselor at my school hadn't said anything, I'd be dead today. I've been down that road. It's not a nice journey, I promise. Nor is it easy to just tell someone. You can want help all you want, but for some odd reason, it's not that simple. If her depression was anything like mine, it would have made her believe that if she told anyone, she would be a worse person, make her feel more worthless somehow.

Quoting MamaCrash:“ Not if the conselor feels that the child is a risk to themselves, or to others. They are required by ... [snip!] ... it would have made her believe that if she told anyone, she would be a worse person, make her feel more worthless somehow.”

im sorry to hear that   cant be nice for you thats for sure!!
i didnt read the whole thing just saw something about a councellor telling someone or something.

Depression is a very touchy subject.. up until i was 4 months along i hated the "baby" i carried.. i wanted her dead.. i even had bad thoughts of things i would do to harm my self and my then fetus.. it wasnt until the ultrasound where they told me i was going to have a little girl that i realize "you know what im really going to be a mom.. i really need to love this baby" and to this day i regret wanting my precious little daughter dead.. i dont know what i would do with out Kaylee in my life.. she saved me.. but when i was pregnant at first i was seriously losing it even though i never told anyone and acted like i was absoulutly in love with the fact i was becoming a mom even thoug the thought sickened and terrified me


Let the poor girl be.. if shes fake let her be fake if shes real.. she needs some help and i pray that she does get help..


ive been in abusive relationships.. its not easy to just walk away.. ive been sucidal its not easy to just "snap out of it" untyil you wear her shoes and walk where shes been dont jump on her.. maybe she copes differently with things then we do..

Quoting jessicamatlock:“ Depression is a very touchy subject.. up until i was 4 months along i hated the "baby" i carried.. i ... [snip!] ... it" untyil you wear her shoes and walk where shes been dont jump on her.. maybe she copes differently with things then we do..”

Thank you. I'm sorry to hear you felt that way, but I'm so very glad to know that you came through. It's not easy going through things like this, and people who are not or never were depressed can not know what we are talking about. Sure, they may have friends. But until they know that pain themselves, they know nothing. And another thing that people don't understand, is that you don't just grow out of your depression. You just learn to cope with it in other ways. It's just like any other addiction, so to speak. You can relapse, and feel just as bad if not worse than you did before.

It bothers me .. People who have perfect lives or really shitty lives are fake...


And getting on someone about their depression or any mental condition bothers me... I play off how great my life is.. But its not all its cracked up to be.... I hope this girl seeks help and soon... When I was around 11 I devolped a friendship online with a 19 year old girl and she cried for help and no one believed her until it was too late