Hi ladys i just had a secand misscarige

so on june the 9 i found out i was prego! it was a shocker but i was happy.
But two days later i stared to bleed witch i thoughit was normal but O NO it did not end there then the heavy bleeding came and the cramping OMG it was the wrost pain i have ever felt so I ended up in the ER and they did ultrasound and NO BABY.. Then they Blood work.. After a while the Dr. came in and siad i just had a misscariage. I was sad and of course i cried   MY boyfriend was there with me and he was sad also..
So the Dr. gave me BC and i was using it correctly when on august 15 i found out again i was prego and i had another misscariage. at this moment i feel useless and sad and confused??????????????????????????  

i dont know why it happen? was it to soon? is there somethign wrong with me?

WHAT is it?

any help

it wa sprobably to soon u prob. need to let your body recoop. from the 1st one.

I went through the same thing two months apart. I stopped trying and got some test done. Everything that my OB did said we were fine, then 6 months later we conceived our daughter. Well then in Nov this past year I started again. Miscarriage again. This time we went to a specialist and then tested the hell out of me....It was my body not putting out enough folic acid and I had to take 7 pills a day for a while. Now I am almost 20 weeks preggo again. It is so hard to go through that, but to help from having the pain again find out why if at all possible.

I am so sorry for your losses!  

Im so sorry and sweetie nothing is wrong with u it happens and it sucks i hope the best 4 u and your family

I don't think BC is supposed to cause miscarriage, but 2 of my friends decided to try to have a baby right after getting off the pill, and both miscarried. When they waited a few months to try, the babies were fine. I think if you seriously want to get pregnant, stay off the pill for 4-6 months and use another BC method until you start trying. It may have been too soon. If you have a 3rd one, I would have a doctor run some tests to check for genetic conditions.

Im sorry for your loss   Even when it is so early on its still so disappointing.

Thats crazy you got pg next cycle and on bc!! Maybe it happened because you aren't protected for the first 7 days on BC. Also, if you have any upset stomach or sickness it can make it less effective too. Even not taking them at the right time can stop them working properly.

The loss could've been because it was just too soon for you. If your body only had a couple of weeks then the lining of the womb probably wasn't strong enough to carry a baby. Thats why a lot of Drs recommend waiting for 3 cycles before getting pg again.

I hope it was just bad luck and you will have a healthy pregnancy again once you are ready. *hugs*

Quoting Ms. Tamika:“ it wa sprobably to soon u prob. need to let your body recoop. from the 1st one.”

very true 2 soon

Mama, I am sorry for your loss, I am exactly where you are at, wondering the same thing. My pain for number two was excruciating,the painand cramping has subsided but my heart is full of hurt. Hang in there, you are not alone.

Quoting Ms. Tamika:“ it wa sprobably to soon u prob. need to let your body recoop. from the 1st one.”

thats what the dr. told me also
but i still feel bad about it.

Quoting kc_jones78:“ Mama, I am sorry for your loss, I am exactly where you are at, wondering the same thing. My pain for ... [snip!] ... number two was excruciating,the painand cramping has subsided but my heart is full of hurt. Hang in there, you are not alone.”

even though were not expecting them i had my hope that was having a baby

Norma!!! Honey, no need to hurry take your time and let your body heal!! you'll have another baby in no time!!

im so sorry for your loss darl. as everyone else has said it might have been to early. the doc told me to wait at least 2 cycles b4 trying again. that gives your body time to heal. it could of been that ur uterus hadnt got back to normal yet n couldnt hold ur baby or it could of been nothing. only god knows y he takes our babys up to heaven.your babys are watching over u n looking after u. kisses