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How do I make this up to my husband?

posted 20th Aug
So ... I'm 24 weeks pregnant and clearly very emotional lately. A couple of days ago I started a fight with my husband about him not loving me. I know he does, but likeI said ... totally emotional .. hormonal ... all that. I woke Tuesday morning to a three page letter from my husband all about how much he loves me. I totally blew him and the letter off. My husband called me at three this morning to tell me he loved me. I hadn't really had a conversation with him in about two days. I'm surprised I even answered the phone. He was at the hospital with a fellow officer who had been killed in the line of duty. He and another officer then had to go and inform the daughter of the fallen officer that her mother had passed away. Husband finally made it home around 9am after the suspect had been arrested. Did I make the situation better? No. My husband started going on and on about how our children are not going to be cops, and I got mad at him. Didn't want to speak to him. I left and went to work. Now I'm at work and feeling like an absolutely HORRIBLE wife ... and I have no idea how I'm going to make this up to my husband. I don't deal with death very well ... and I just don't know what I'm supposed to say to him or how to deal with this ... any help or suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated ... and thanks for letting me get this out ... even just doing this helped me some ...
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I'm due December 9th (a boy) & live in Thibodaux, Louisiana
posted 20th Aug
I would get some yellow roses and write him a letter explaining how you have been feeling and how you are feeling guilty now. Offer to make a nice dinner and just talk.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Oceanside, California
posted 20th Aug
Sounds like your husband is extremly loving. He should be understanding too. Just talk to him as soon as you can and explain everything.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Springfield, Missouri
posted 20th Aug
Quoting Cop's Wife:“ So ... I'm 24 weeks pregnant and clearly very emotional lately. A couple of days ago I started a fight ... [snip!] ... or advice would be greatly appreciated ... and thanks for letting me get this out ... even just doing this helped me some ...”

This sounds like me! I was fighting with my hubby about not being romantic enough! I think a lot was my hormones cause I wouldn't normally just start a fight about something like that. I think you should just sit him down and apoligize to him and tell him how your feeling now. Everyone handles death differently and he just may want you to listen and not say anything. Good luck!
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Denver, Colorado
posted 20th Aug
its just your emotions you cant help that and im guessing that he understands because hes still leting you know how he loves you some men dont get and will totally flip out if you act like that id just write him an uber lovey letter telling him how thankful you are for him being so understanding and being there when i did that to my b/f i did the same letter thing and he understood and we had (TMI) make up sex in no time lol he'll understand obviously he truely loves you
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I have 1 child & live in Connecticut
posted 20th Aug
I know where you're coming from... I do the same to my fiance, and he's cried over it so many times... I feel so bad after... And I never know what to do... I think he at least understands that it's because I'm pregnant...
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I'm due January 22nd & live in Ontario
posted 20th Aug
Thank you all very much for the input ... You all made me cry ... As if I haven't been doing enough of that lately! lol ... Thanks again though ... Really appreciate the replies ...

Hope you all have a wonderful evening.
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I'm due December 9th (a boy) & live in Thibodaux, Louisiana
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