Dirty Detail Labour and Delivery

Okay so i was nine days overdue and i couldnt handle the swelling the cramps, the false labour the EVERYTHING. I took some castor oil, yes, guiltly. Anyways. i had the shits..lol..and i went into false labour again... i was 2 cm dilated for like day but i had no pains and i wanst in active labour. I regret the castor oil tho dont try it! So im at my bfs baseball game and i get CRAMPS, go home lay down come back bla bla. 12am i feel like throwing up, im leaning over the toilet puking my brains out crying for my mom but she cant hear me because her fan is beside her ear and is on high! and my sister, well shes in the living room she can hear me but she dont care lol. Mom finally hears me and comes to see the pukey mess "oh lissa i think ur in labour" pfft yeah right! "it was those stupid sausages u fed me!!" i tell her, but no, many minutes like like 20 the contractions come again, longer, sooner, stronger! my bfs like half sleeping i wake him up in pain "ITS TIME" u know what he does, hops in the shower! so we get our ass to the hostpial which is 35 minutes away. Im swearing all the way there lifting my ass off the seat cuz it feels like im gonna take a load of baby in the car! im 4cm at the hospital! YESS!! i try and be a soldier and avoid the epidural in which i did until i was 6 cm. when i wanted it...the doctor was doing a C-section, had to wait an hour but then i was already 8cm  they TRIED to give it to me but nope, i was in so much pain and it wasnt working! so im having her naturally! im fully dilated and ready to push the nurse says "oh my god ur doing so good for a first mom!" im like ya shut up dont talk to me! i said i didnt wanna hear ne one saying "omg i see the head" what does the nurse do? "omg i see the hair, theres lots!!" i freak out...i cant get her out though, and her heart is dipping shes very stressed. im extra scared for my little love. They then tried the vacuum which hurt me so badly and it was an intern doing it, she did it wrong TWICE it was so painful i thought i was having the baby. Nurse then doesnt tell me nothing, but CUTS me open, it BURNED my poor kitty so badly....  i screamed so loud that hurts when u have no meds. she grabs those TWO big spoons and puts em in, thought the baby was out but that was the spoons going in! i give a big ass push and shes out! i cried so hard when i first seen her! she wasnt breathing! she pooped inside me and swollowed it! they got some of the stuff out but she was still not crying or anything, she was taken away from me to the NICU where i wouldnt see her for a while. i had a anxiety attack and the nurse had to take pics of her for me, she was ok  so they stitch me up and im feeling alot better, i dont even care about the stitches, nothing compared to having a baby. i have a bath and go see her. i cant even hold her for the first time until the next day and she has tubes down her throat so i cant hear her cry, she wants to feed so badly she was sucking on the cord for her IVs.. im very thankful that shes here today, well and healthy, sorry if this story bored u. everytime i think about it i cry 

i was told in prenatals that doctors here won't do an episiotomy (sp) unless it's necessary, in which case there is no time to discuss it first. 
the same thing happened to me. i had a epidural, but because my nurse was fucking stupid and couldn't hold my leg for me cause her "shoulder would pop out", i needed to somehow in the moment unfreeze myself and hold my self up. i felt EVERYTHING and can still feel it when i think about it. my bf was told to look at the head right when they cut, and literally couldn't sleep that night over fear of what he saw. 
i'm glad she's alright though . any idea when she'll be home?

This happened last summer, im just reminising   lol...but im in my second pregnancy and hoping all goes well with this one, im shit scared tho!

my son also pooped wile inside me, from fetal stress, they say Castor Oil can casue that, but idk, i didnt take it, i just know how scray that is, he had so much in his luchs he still at 3 months is a little weezy some tiems  

Was it the castor oil that did that???   

if i read this before I had my baby I would have shit myself.. although I didn't get any drugs either, but my experience wasn't as bad as that  

Quoting I*love*my*Haley*Bug:“ Was it the castor oil that did that???    if i read this before I had my baby I would have ... [snip!] ... had my baby I would have shit myself.. although I didn't get any drugs either, but my experience wasn't as bad as that  ”

lol, yeah i blaim myself for this, i thought it was because of the castor oil , but i had taken it like maybe 2 days before the delivery... it was the postition the baby was in, because they told me to move a certain way and i couldnt... i hope i dont have to go through this experience again

Quoting Erica [=)]:“ my son also pooped wile inside me, from fetal stress, they say Castor Oil can casue that, but idk, i ... [snip!] ... didnt take it, i just know how scray that is, he had so much in his luchs he still at 3 months is a little weezy some tiems  ”

awh im sorry to hear, he will get better  i honestly think it was her positioning, because they kept telling me i had to lay this way for this to be ok. but god i was in so much pain i couldnt move...i swear

Quoting AcaciasMom&Expecting:“ This happened last summer, im just reminising   lol...but im in my second pregnancy and hoping all goes well with this one, im shit scared tho!”

i guess i should have read that, lol. sorry bout that. it will be better this time. 

I bet if more people saw this it could have ended up in the drama corner cause you mentioned 'castor oil' lol.. luckywoman
are you enjoying baby ga ga  

Castor Oil is bad but I wish you luck next time. Hopefully u will get an epidural on time. I know it was a life saver for me even tho I ended up having a C-section.