IT JUST WON'T STOP!!!
posted 19th Aug
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So as I ranted on here before, my girlfriend was all excited to come home last week up until Wednesday, then Saturday she says we're on a break... ANYWAY NOW her mom calls me and tells me that she doenst want her living there, that the best thing for her is to live with me.
Her family wants me to tell her to come back with me to our place in a different city because she has her last OB GYN appointment in our city and her next one will be in the city her parents are in as she has decided she is going to live there...
DO I TRY TO GET HER TO STAY HERE FOR A WEEK?!?!?! I though I was supposed to be giving her space right now. BAHHHHHHHHHHH I'm so lost!
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Why don't her parents want her there?
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wow thats confusing those hormones are killer
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Honestly I think that if she wants to be on a break and not with you I would just leave it alone. She will really spite you if you try and side with her family now and just push you away. Give her, her space and tell them to try and find away of helping her without being rude of course.
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Her parents don't want her there because her and her dad dont get along and he is the one person that she treats worse than me. Her mom had the upstairs of her house and the dad had the basement. It was their own retreats, she took over the basement and won;t let her dad down there and FREAKS if he does, Her mom is always watching tv and on the computer upstairs and her dad has nowhere to go. PLUS its a financial burden they can;t handle
they KNOW I'm the best option for her as I am the only person that has ever had enough patience for her and they want her to live with me because EVERYONE is happier then...
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You really do need to honor her wishes and let her have her space. That sounds like drama within the family, and they really should handle it themselves. If they don't want her to live their, than they should tell her themselves, instead of trying to get you to do the dirty work
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Yeah I was thinkingI should keep giving her space but her family telling me that she should be with me and that I should really try to get her threw me for a loop. MAN I hope this is just pregnancy hormones and not actual mental issues... the latter is seeming more and more possible every minute! If not hers then mine!
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