re: I can't do this anymore.

Quoting [OG] necesito dinero:“ yes my husband is the same way about counseling. I think you should take more time apart. 3 or 4 days ... [snip!] ... of your parents for a couple weeks or longer? What did your mom think when she saw him break your phone in front of you 2?”

She's trying to give us time to cool off and talk about things, but I'm SO mad. And we rent from my mom right now, we have an inlaw suite with 2 bedrooms a living room, a bathroom, and a kitchen.

Quoting Mrs♥Ladylike:“ For a while, we were actually physically abusive with eachother, so now instead of that, I guess we break ... [snip!] ... he gets mad at me, he says "I want a divorce." I'm so sick of this. I deserve someone who loves me and wants to make me happy.”

In my marriage we aren't allowed to say the "D" Word - divorce. If people throw it around so much it is bound to happen. Now do you feel like you were kind of pressured into the threesome and deep down it hurt you? I find divorce ok in 2 ways only, 1. If you are being abused in any way, 2 if the person is unwilling to change because no matter how hard you try you can't change a person's behavior

Quoting Samantha's Mommie:“ I'll trade you for sure. When he wants it he rips off my bottoms while I'm asleep & doesn't care. ... [snip!] ... My family doesn't want to hear about it & he hates his family he has a restraining order against him by his family.”

yeah that is not ok, does he still continue to do his "thing" even when you say no?

Quoting Mrs♥Ladylike:“ I agree, he is a complete asshole. And it doesn't happen often (the sex thing) but it's happened a few ... [snip!] ... with this anymore. I want to be happy and loved. I want to look foward to being around my husband. Not beg for time..you know?”

Sounds like your love language isn't being met. you guys need to read this book together: http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/ If he doesn't want sex did it hurt your feelings he wanted a threesum I guess is what I was getting at earlier.

Is there something that changed from when you were dating and when you got married? Maybe there is something he is hiding that is making him act that way?

Quoting Dallas Lorraine:“ Yea, I say get a divorce. Your relationship is unhealthy anddysfunctional.”

I'd try counceling first, see if that works. Marriage takes work. You got to work at it... but he has to work at it too.