Quoting mama3:“ you are right, I didn't realize your not from the states where it is a bigger deal. Is the man you are with from America? It should be both your decisions so see if you BOTH can come to a compromise”

no hes from the uk to but hes cicumsized because of hes religion

We had our first som circumsised...and I am currently pregnant with another little boy who will be circumsised also. I talked with our pediatrician about it and he said that before the surgery actually takes place he numbs the whole area so well that the baby wont feel any pain at all. He said that he has preformed this on infants to grown men, and from what his older patients have told him little to no pain was felt.
In the end a circumsision is much cleaner and healthier for your child. Without is they are more prone to yeast infections. Best of luck to you and your family with your new little bundle!

Quoting **35 days**  “ My 15 - 16 year old nephew ... is very very angry at his mother for not having him circumcised when he was born...”

  A lot of people have no idea how many of us have felt exactly the same way.
  But that was then.  Why doesn't she do something about it NOW?

where do they get circumsised??

My bf isn't circumsized 'nd he doesn't want out little boy to be.