well shit

So here is my delima. I was gone for three weeks on a vacation. well my husband was acting very weird while i was away i could tell by his voice something was up. then all of the sudden it was like all was well. when i got home he has been sweet as sugar even suggesting we talk about getting pregnant again. well. when i was cleaning a few mins ago, i was in a drawer trying to get it straightened up and so... yeah. there was a box of condoms that we had bought a couple days before i left. well when i picked it up the condoms fell out. there were 11 when i left and now there are 8.... i haven't talked to him yet and so i don't know what to do. do i confront him about it? do i let it go? do i....? i don't know what do you ladies think?

id be pissed especially since there are 3 missing....he better be making water balloons with the damn things or else he seriously owes you an explanation

 
I would ask him, it is better than worrying.

Maybe he is masturbating into them? Hopefully...

Quoting AmandaLaura:“   I would ask him, it is better than worrying. Maybe he is masturbating into them? Hopefully...”

they do that? that's weird....

Quoting AmandaLaura:“   I would ask him, it is better than worrying. Maybe he is masturbating into them? Hopefully...”

doubtful

Are you sure you didn't miscount?

could he have given them away to someone?

Yeah........somethings up. Confront him.

Quoting Daniels_Mommy:“ they do that? that's weird....”

i know a few guys that do... less mess i guess.

ask but don't automatically jump to conclusions because it could be the cause of a big arguement over nothing. =/

hopefully he did just masturbate with them. maybe he didn't want to make a mess! you never know.

good luck. =]

Quoting letter2elise:“ doubtful”

yeah i've heard they aren't very pleasurable.

but hey, did you leave the kids with him? if yes, then do they have access to that box? i know when i was younger i played with condoms all the time. if you blow them up like a balloon they stick to the ceiling.

but definitely take into consideration your husbands behavior. is he acting suspicious?

Quoting AmandaLaura:“   I would ask him, it is better than worrying. Maybe he is masturbating into them? Hopefully...”

yeah, my hubby used to do that....as weird as that is, lol.

I'd just be up front with him...ask him what's up.

Might as well talk to him about it, or you will keep wondering until you finally blow and bring it up at the wrong time. Maybe he put them somewhere else or something.

Are you going to give an update?

I would tell him I caught his ass. In my experience , the less room you give them to get out of it the better. If nothing happend then their will be no hesitantion in denying it when you say "I know you've been sleeping with someone else". where as if you say "Do you want to explain this" all sorts of crazy shit starts coming out. I'm a no bullshit kinda girl though.