what the fuck

ok so my fiance left up his myspace mail and his "friend " left him this....it makes me so mad because i talk to her once in a while and im not sure what she means.....


LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you're so silly will... you're always in my heart if not on my mind.. and i will see you before i move. i promise.. and i'm not dying.. hopefully.. i'll visit love.. and make sure i let you know when i'm in town.. it's just so hard without a license.. but i'm planning on getting it friday.. cross your fingers... i hope i do.. how else will i get to work next week? LOL.. so... then i'll be sure to stop by... and i love you and care about you. and jen.. and even though we met at amf ..lamest place in the whole world.. i feel a stronger connection and like you know me more than people i've known almost my whole life... and i consider you one of my treasured friends.. shit.. you treat me better than my so called best friend.. who doesn't even fucking talk to me. lol... it's sad. so don't worry hon.. like i said.. you and your family are ALWAYS in my heart. ^^

-Marleen

Yeah i'd be swing at my husband if i read something like that. Have you asked him about it?

OMg that is messed up/? have you ever seen this girl before??

Quoting Rockin Mommy:“ ok so my fiance left up his myspace mail and his "friend " left him this....it makes me so mad because ... [snip!] ... talk to me. lol... it's sad. so don't worry hon.. like i said.. you and your family are ALWAYS in my heart. ^^ -Marleen”

Most definitly check his sent messages to see whats been going on in their messages up until this one. A little fishy but maybe we're reading into it too hard, she did acknoledge your family.

I don't think she meant it in a bad way, especially since she mentioned you in the message, but I'd be kinda weird about it too.

holy shi*, theyd both have a whole lot of talkin to do.., thats no way they should be talking to each other when hes in a commitment. I dont think that looks any better than it sounds. ugh....

IMO I don't think it's that big of a deal she's saying she loves him as a friend

Yeah if I read that on my fiances page, he'd be missing some teeth, I think! lol.
That's wrong, ask him about it,
it's not like you were snooping, it's his own fault for leaving it up on the screen!!

hmmmmm shady. on one hand, she mentions you and she loves your family, but then she says that crap about thinking about him. check his outbox/sent box. anything in there?

It sounded to me like she also said she loves you? IDK. Strange.

Quoting Rockin Mommy:“ ok so my fiance left up his myspace mail and his "friend " left him this....it makes me so mad because ... [snip!] ... talk to me. lol... it's sad. so don't worry hon.. like i said.. you and your family are ALWAYS in my heart. ^^ -Marleen”

i dont know if its something to get too thrown over about, i mean yeah she seems a tad bit too close for comfort, but then again that could just be how she is, idk, i say ask him about it BEFORE its taken the wrong way.

sounds like someone either really really really really really likes her friends (aka does she call everyone love/sweetie/etc? b/c if so then ok.. but if not... .... ) OR someone wants to be more than friends

but i dunno either of them... but id be sooooooo pissed LOL im super crazy about girls that have met me & then talk to my bf like their trying to get him ....but who knows, maybe she does just really really appreciate him as a friend...

I don't think I would worry too much about that. It sounds like she just thinks of him as a good friend, and she is mentioning you as well. Alot of people don't think guys and girls can be "just friends". But I've had some guys who were really really good friends. Just to me personally, that didn't sound loverish, more your a great friend and I love you for it.

i know it seems a little weird but maybe she is just an over emotional friend. i have a girlfriend who obsesses over her friends, even the guys. she is like "omg i love you so much! you are my world! im soo glad i met you." and she means it only as a friend. maybe this girl is just way too emotional/passionate about her friendships. Maybe your fiance never really told you what kind of relationship they had because he thought you would be mad? but she said nice things about you i think.

Oh, man. If I were you I'd be biting heads off. This woman makes it sound like they have some kind of close, crossing the line relationship.