re: what the fuck

I think it sounds like she is a little weird.

I would be mad as hell, see that is why my husband don't like that myspace shit. I would have to talk to him about that because it could be her and not him. But yeah try to find out first before you go busting his head wide open lol.

maybe she has a fatal illness

To be honest, I went through crap like this. Honestly, the connection thing is a little creepy, watch out for that one. But she just sounds like a needy girl for a good guy friend to have close, incase something happened with her life; hes the first person she would go crying to, im sure. I wouldn't be too concerned yet, but if she makes a move or he does, then flip a shit. :] Other than that, i would calmly ask him about it, and be SURE to explain why you want to ask him. And how it makes you feel. Give him your side of the story, but remember to at least listen to his afterwards.