is it me or him?

me and my SO havent had sex since the 3rd of august, his 18th birthday.
and since Faylynn was born only about 7 times and she's like 3 and half months old.
but its not just sex, he won't kiss me, like a peck on the lips.
he won't hug me.
nothing! i mean before i had Faylynn it was sex 3 or 4 times a day.
but i dont get it now, do you think hes lost all interest in me or am i just being stupid?
hes been talking to more and more chicks, at work.
do you think hes cheating?
or again am i just being dumb?

eh he could be cheating but so can a man that has sex with his wife every night...

guys are wierd why not ask him whats up? maybe if you go pull on him zipper he will lol some guys like the girl to grab the horns lol

Maybe you should sit down and tell him how you feel.

haha trust me i tired that, he pushs me away and says come on babe i don't wanna.
so then i get a teary eyed and he says it's not you baby i just don't feel like it.
wich he says everytime so it seems like BS.
he used to love it when i did things like that [ TMI ] but he's changed now

Quoting Dallas Lorraine:“ Maybe you should sit down and tell him how you feel.”

he's one of those guys that doesn't communicate   so i've tried and he just gets up and walks away

Like the rest of the girls are saying i agree, you should go to him before you jump to conclusions.
You never know maybe it could be that you just need to spice up your sex life,
you know change it up.

Quoting *Momma Chrissy*:“ Like the rest of the girls are saying i agree, you should go to him before you jump to conclusions. ... [snip!] ... jump to conclusions. You never know maybe it could be that you just need to spice up your sex life, you know change it up.”

yeah i know what you all mean, i mean yeah i've tryed alot of different things, but nothing seems to work.
y'all got any ideas i can try?
lol

Talk to him about it. If you think hes lying, then go through his shit to find out

Quoting faylynn's mommy:“ he's one of those guys that doesn't communicate   so i've tried and he just gets up and walks away”

If he refuses to listen remind him what he is putting at stake by not communicating with you.Ask him if he wants his daughter to pick up his bad habits, in not communicating. some men dont relize how serious the situation is to us women and pass it by. And then regret it when we get tired of waiting and walk out the door. By that time its to late. Let him know it is really important to you.

Quoting faylynn's mommy:“ he's one of those guys that doesn't communicate   so i've tried and he just gets up and walks away”

My ex/BD was the same. Then he would complain that I never talk to him. Sometimes you need to be firm. That's the only way I got my message out. Let him know you're serious and you two really need to talk about this. Communication is key. Right now it just seems like he's giving you reason to think he's cheating and I know how that can tear a person up inside.

thanks girls i'ma try to get through his thick ass head.

Quoting faylynn's mommy:“ thanks girls i'ma try to get through his thick ass head.”

Haha, good luck  

Quoting faylynn's mommy:“ yeah i know what you all mean, i mean yeah i've tryed alot of different things, but nothing seems to work. y'all got any ideas i can try? lol”

Well if he dont like the romantic mooshy stuff try making it alittle kinky, or put the 2 together. try asking him to pick out what kinda outfits he would like to see you in. you can try role playing or just watching a porn and going from there.
they also have those card games and all that kinda crap now a days. 

Quoting *Momma Chrissy*:“ Well if he dont like the romantic mooshy stuff try making it alittle kinky, or put the 2 together. ... [snip!] ... or just watching a porn and going from there. they also have those card games and all that kinda crap now a days. ”

haha thanks ill try and think of somethin

Quoting faylynn's mommy:“ me and my SO havent had sex since the 3rd of august, his 18th birthday. and since Faylynn was born only ... [snip!] ... just being stupid? hes been talking to more and more chicks, at work. do you think hes cheating? or again am i just being dumb?”

have u tried talking ot him?